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number123356/r/askMRP20/06/17 09:55 AM
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I am saving roids for when I am to old to experience the long term downsides. yk
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:14 AM
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This workout looks great. I do Greyskull L.P. at the moment. It's cool but a bit short imho.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:12 AM
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1.8m 92kg 20% bodyfat
/r/askTRP02/05/18 06:51 AM
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Since she knows about your depression I wouldn't LTR her. No matter how solid your frame might be now she will always wonder if you give in under pressure. She knows you crack. She will try to get into your head and test you constantly. Get a girl who will support you.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 10:44 AM
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I am sorry that your think I invested little time in my post. I think I could have elaborate more about my situation. On the other hand I want to get some reports from you rather than discuss my situation. I worked on my depression - started with seeing shrink about a year ago. Almost all issues are resolved by the divorce, RP, and lifting. My post history makes a sad impression. I generally lurk more and post less. I don't see any value in posting stuff about how well MRP works - you guys know …
/r/askMRP26/01/18 02:00 PM
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Why are you posting this?
/r/askMRP23/01/18 12:03 PM
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so many writing mistakes. Not my first language - guess I have to get better at this
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/17 12:54 PM
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Stagnation The past weeks I did a lot work related stuff - this meant driving around, visiting costumers, writing reports. I was thinking about my goals. I was listening to a lot of podcasts (Peterson and Jocko). I got a copy of Musashi - which is a brilliant book. More so from a RP perspective. I am stagnating. I am in a good position and I have no fear of loosing it. That's OK. I took a deep breath. I established a baseline. But this can't go on. There is a /u/Rian_Stone in the back on my head…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/17 11:15 AM
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You will fuck up and it is part of the progress. There is plenty of material from pua' s you can watch and read all day long but you have to implement it
/r/askTRP12/12/17 02:55 PM
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So Boxing is better?
/r/askTRP12/12/17 01:33 PM
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Well I tell you a secret. There are girls like this. But they don't like nice guys. In fact if you are nice they can't be this girl you described. They will have to take so much control, they will feel so vulnerable that they have to be this ugly bitches till they find a new partner. And they will "fall in love" if he is even a slice redder then you are. You won't find a unicorn. You create the environment to give a possibility for your girl to turn into the right women for you. If you fall apar…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 01:05 PM
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Don't fake it. Go out and get some experience. Start low and improve. Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP12/12/17 12:54 PM
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Gifting gifts was just the crystallization point. Showed me that I am not socially aware as you phrase it. I am not delegation - someone is taking responsibility for me because I don't have my act together => Omega Btw what does FO stand for.
/r/askMRP07/12/17 12:46 PM
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Rephrasing the question: Is a lack of social skill a blind spot and should be improved? Could be a blind spot I am having
/r/askMRP07/12/17 08:16 AM
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You work in tech. There are plenty of websites who offer contract work. There are also plenty of websites on how to be an entrepeneur. I will give you advise for your first step. This is the only free advise you will get from me on this subject: Do the research yourself
/r/askMRP07/12/17 07:49 AM
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Lift
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:35 AM
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NoFap is not a part of TRP. As usual do whatever you like.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:33 AM
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I am not quite sure if I care about the money. Besides I am working on a side project but I am not sure if I can monetize it. At least it's interesting and challenging.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/17 02:48 PM
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WEEK 26 I am here due to the following reasons. fucked up my first marriage became a fat fuck Huge beta and took the backseat in life I want to improve and be a better man - never making the same mistake again. STATS - Age: 29 Income: 30k - Height: 180cm - Weight: 95 kg. BF%: ~21% Madcow 5X5: Squat 95kg , Bench 62.5 kg , OHP 40 kg, ROW 62.5 kg, DL 105kg FAILURES I did not do anything to get nearer to my CS degree - I know what to do, I have the material and I keep saying to myself that I don't h…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/17 07:34 AM
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Well actually a comment on one of my OYS got me to this conclusion.
/r/askMRP16/11/17 07:20 AM
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Swinger Club
/r/askTRP14/11/17 11:51 AM
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Not-US and underpaid by normal standards
/r/askMRP13/11/17 01:57 PM
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Good call: Usually I set goals and divide them into tasks and habits. Tasks are one-shot events that need to be done and habits are reoccurring tasks. E.g.: Writing a schedule (task) Learn every day (habit) Milestone / Checkpoint: Pass exam => Goal: CS Degree
/r/askMRP13/11/17 12:48 PM
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You can have a LTR without having oneitis. This is hard and it is a slippery slope. So first and foremost - you must always be in a frame and mindset where you can leave and never turn back. From this there derive three rule: Don't move in together. You need your space and time for your own projects. Meet at her place - so you can leave and don't have to kick her out Always hold a high level of SMV and dread Remember it is always just your turn - so don't delude yourself into thinking that you h…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 12:01 PM
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I still got some more goals to archive: CS degree Loose weight And I guess when I have reached theese goals I wont be glad either. The only achievement I truly and deeply feel good about is lifting.
/r/askMRP13/11/17 10:40 AM
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Seriously I don't have a clue. I know I should be happy about this. I am intellectually happy with it => more money => more options. But I feel depressed.
/r/askMRP13/11/17 10:33 AM
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WEEK 22 I am here due to the following reasons. fucked up my first marriage became a fat fuck Huge beta and took the backseat in life I want to improve and be a better man - never making the same mistake again. STATS - Age: 29 Income: 30k - Height: 180cm - Weight: 95 kg. BF%: ~20% SL 5X5: Squat 90kg , Bench 60 kg , OHP 40 kg, ROW 60 kg, DL 105kg FAILURES Got a nasty flu and wasn't able to work out. Progress seems to have slowed down. Everything is Okish but I am loosing momentum. Second time tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/17 01:58 PM
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You DEERed. Why explain anything just say no. Sounds really stupid - hurt my toe. To me it sounds that you are butthurt. If you get angry if someone tests your frame you don't have frame. Frame is the image you have about yourself. People will constantly test it. That's how it rolls. You roll with the punches. So I tell you here and there that you are stupid. You don't care. You don't get even angry - I am just some random jerk on the internet. I can't shatter your frame.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:06 AM
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WEEK 21 I am here due to the following reasons. fucked up my first marriage *became a fat fuck *Huge beta and took the backseat in life I want to improve and be a better man - never making the same mistake again. STATS - Age: 29 - Income: 30k - Height: 180cm - Weight: 94.5 kg. - BF%: ~20% - SL 5X5: Squat 90kg , Bench 62.5 kg , OHP 42,5 kg, ROW 62.5 kg, DL 107,5kg FAILURES Accomplished almost nothing last week - well mostly due to business trips. This will at least give me some extra cash. GOALS …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 11:04 AM
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I work at the firm my father owns with his best friend (30 employees). It's a consulting firm, think of OSHAS and Quality Management. I do the IT and also QM for almost 5 years. I code some smaller projects for customers (webapps, mobil). Mainly I do QM but recently more IT - Security. Frankly I like my job at the firm but it feels like getting pocket money. You make 3x my income. I don't know which sector you work but IT and Consultant aren't sectors known for bad earnings. I can get a CS degre…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/17 12:29 PM
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Half assing is the worst. My challenge is eating enough to make gains but also losing weight.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 08:22 PM
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Thanks for the reminder - 22lbs to go. It's more or less stagnating right now which means I am eating too much
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 08:10 PM
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My stack is python, django, matplotlib, RML, numpy for backend and react for front-end. I also do reactnative for Mobil development. It's all fine for getting started in the business but if you want the management jobs you got to get the degree or connections...
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 08:03 PM
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WEEK 20 I am here due to the following reasons. fucked up my first marriage became a fat fuck Huge beta and took the backseat in life I want to improve and be a better man - never making the same mistake again. STATS. - Age: 29 - Income: 30k - Height: 180cm - Weight: 95 kg. - BF%: ~20% - SL 5X5: Squat 87kg , Bench 62.5 kg , OHP 40 kg, ROW 62.5 kg, DL 105kg FAILURES. Gave a long and hard thought after reading the comments after last OYS. I should focus on business in the moment and increasing my …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 09:33 AM
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From the FAQ (sidebar) Who are you? We are men that subscribe to The Red Pill (TRP) philosophy of sexual strategy, and in particular, applying it in marriage or in Long Term Relationships. This sub was created independently to address the needs of married men to discuss relationships issues. Our approach is different from /r/relationships and /r/deadbedrooms because those don't work. Instead, here we focus on how to become stronger men to lead our marriage and LTRs to happiness. approach is diff…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 09:21 AM
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You are playing her game also: https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/08/rooting-through-garbage/
/r/askTRP09/10/17 01:14 PM
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"Hi my name is Setsuna, and I'd like to get to know you what's your name?" This screams awkward!
/r/askTRP09/10/17 01:04 PM
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Give it some time bro. This is not a magic potion that will grant you superpowers, it's hard work. Be consistent. I am 6 month in and my life changed extremely. Lost over 22 lbs, started to dress better, be a more open and fun person. And only recently girls started to approach me. If I check out a girl and wink at her - now they smile and giggle rather than turn away in disgust. This is the long haul. Be aware of the crab bucket mentality - fair chance that your mates pull you down.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 01:02 PM
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Looking at your posts you recently head a break up and you are into gaming. Nothing wrong with this stuff - but it looks like you aren't into RP that long. RP is not another PUA strategy - it's about fixing yourself. Are you doing this or do you just need to get laid quickly?
/r/askTRP09/10/17 12:40 PM
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Your SMV is too low - also women tend to have a distorted view on SMV from time to time. Dancing is optional. Do you lift?
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:52 AM
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I don't want to be told she will find a new business partner because she is upset I am calling from a Hooters in Panama city WTF? Separate business and marriage. Maybe you should get a partner who can focus on business. If you call out of a Hooters it is damn important I guess. I want her to do her business and be successful, and ask for my help as needed, and I want to run mine without her unless I want her opinion on something specific. Do it and charge for your work as consultant. however, sh…
/r/askMRP09/10/17 09:00 AM
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Read it - loved it - would love to see the vid
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/17 08:21 AM
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SMV is important. Get it higher through looks, money or social proof. Looks is by far the easiest
/r/askTRP06/10/17 11:55 AM
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From what I have learned is that I am most credible if I don't do compromises. On finance: YNAB helped me with this: https://classic.youneedabudget.com/method/rule-one If you think about getting the app do some research, get YNAB4 / YNAB Classic. For me this was a financial life changer. On family: This aren't the 50's anymore. So your wife is an author - does she make any money from it? I guess not. If she were she should at least help a little bit out. So you are the sole source of income for …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 08:41 AM
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I am in Euroland - you can live ok on 30k ($35k) where I live. Most stuff is paid by the Company. Talking of gym, car and gas, telephone. Basic living cost me 10k (flat, power, internet, insurance) So while not a "good" income, 30k is certainly a solid income you can live off quite well. Ok what bugges me with the company is that it is half owned by my family. I will inherit it some day. I am working here for 10 years and never got a raise. But I also started with a fair wage for a beginner. I g…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 08:15 AM
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And here I am thinking I'm the fucking masculine man of the house. I want to go home and shit all over her parade and say, listen here spendy-pants. You can go on your trip after you start paying for your student loans and your credit card debt. She will look through this like through glass. Man this is a problem. This is not OI and you are not. Even if you don't say anything I bet you can't keep a straight face and be pissed all the time. I married her, and I CHOSE to pay for her student loans …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/17 01:20 PM
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WEEK 19 I am here due to the following reasons. fucked up my first marriage became a fat fuck Huge beta and took the backseat in life I want to improve and be a better man - never making the same mistake again. STATS. - Age: 29 - Income: 30k - Height: 180cm - Weight: 95 kg. - BF%: ~20% - SL 5X5: Squat 95kg , Bench 60 kg , OHP 37.5 kg, ROW 60 kg, DL 95.5kg FAILURES. Acting Rambo last week GOALS FROM LAST OYS. 1. Long term goals at the moment NEW/CONTINUING GOALS. Regain muscle (should be done thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/17 12:48 PM
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that this is a news flash to you is amazing. Right? Obvious question: How long will this guy take to learn: AWALT and no your STBX is not the special snowflake - in fact none of them is. Just to review cause TRP has obviously not dissolved yet I deluded myself. Thinking well AWALT but not her, this guys don't know her and our history. Fuck my fucking ego. As if I was the exception of all this rules.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/17 12:05 PM
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WEEK 18 I am here due to the following reasons. fucked up my first marriage became a fat fuck Huge beta and took the backseat in life I want to improve and be a better man - never making the same mistake again. STATS. - Age: 29 - Income: 30k - Height: 5’11 - Weight: 215 lbs. - BF%: 20% - SL 5X5: Squat 190, Bench 122, OHP 70, ROW 125, DL 200 FAILURES. Meeting with my ex-Wife over divorce situation Telling new LTR about the meeting GOALS FROM LAST OYS. 1. Improving Work situation (kinda done - mor…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/17 10:58 AM
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I was in a similar situation 3 Years ago. My little daughter died just after 3 Month in the ICU. I was totally BP meaning I did not care for my wife. In fact I blamed her to deflect my own guilt I was feeling. From there everything went downhill. We tried to be together but she felt distant from me and only resentment for what I had done. (Blaming her for the loss of our daugther) I got her to therapy and started therapy myself. Worked through a depression and got fat. Started sport and RP but i…
/r/askMRP27/09/17 05:42 AM
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I use a scale wich can measure it. I know this scales are off but according to the visual chart I am at about 20. Maybe 22% I had to deload due to fuck ups on my side so my weights are about 20% lesser than they should be.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/17 03:09 PM
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5x5 3 days a week. lost 30 lbs in 4 month. I did not count calories. If you do cardio you waste your time and energy. Go fucking lift.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 12:44 PM
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WEEK 17 I am here due to the following reasons. fucked up my first marriage became a fat fuck Huge beta and took the backseat in life I want to improve and be a better man - never making the same mistake again. STATS. - Age: 29 - Income: 30k - Height: 5’11 - Weight: 202 lbs. - BF%: 19% - SL 5X5: Squat 170, Bench 115, OHP 60, ROW 115, DL 185 FAILURES. Not improving in my work situation GOALS FROM LAST OYS. 1. Change Lock DONE NEW/CONTINUEING GOALS. Regain muscle Get a kitchen Drop to 187 lbs. 1/1…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/17 11:45 AM
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Family Business - makes it hard for me to negotiate wages. Upside: almost everything is paid for by the company. I could make more everywhere else but I will someday own the company
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/17 08:48 AM
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Thanks for your comment. I will read Practical Femal Psychology next. I guess I have some work to do
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 07:30 PM
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WEEK 16 I am here due to the following reasons. fucked up my first marriage became a fat fuck Huge beta and took the backseat in life I want to improve and be a better man - never making the same mistake again. STATS. - Age: 29 - Income: 30k - Height: 5’11 - Weight: 205 lbs. - BF%: 20% - SL 5X5: Squat 165, Bench 112, OHP 60, BOR 140, DL 185 FAILURES. Failed to go to gym during the move followed by deloading Fucked up the kitchen situation in the new apartment Making excuses for my fuck ups GOALS…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 11:34 AM
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Got myself some of this soylent stuff or whatever it is named now. Cheap, keeps you healthy (at least this is what they claim). At least it will safe me some money on restaurants
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 02:27 PM
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My targets were merely a shot in the dark. Thought of adjusting them when I get there. 188 lbs seem reasonable two - in my college days I weight around 176 lbs so this was my go to. But I wasn't particular muscled either. I will update my target
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 10:57 AM
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Week 16 Body Body weight 209 lbs, target: 188 lbs; BF: 21% target: ~15%. Missed some workouts due to reno and stupid gym hours. Made burpees and situps and pushups. Doesn't really cut it though. I will be on a business trip this weeks and will move on this weekend. I hope to be back on track soon. Readings MMSLP NMMNG WISNIFG Models Way of the superior man Book of pook The Game 48 Laws of power Rational Male Meditations by Marcus Aurelius Mission and Relationship Reno came along great and missy …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 09:13 AM
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Only if I don't have too much sand up my vagina. Yeah I guess I could break in the gym and do my workouts at night.
/r/askMRP01/09/17 12:28 PM
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I have already talked to a lawyer (covered by my insurance) and he told me it depends on the judge and it won't be an easy one. It's more about me and how to handle the situation. Should I just say screw it. I messed up. Carry on. Or should I take the risk screw the money and make a stand.
/r/askMRP01/09/17 06:27 AM
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Making up your mind about what? If its worth fucking her? Well why not? Just don't get to invested. Do you have any plates?
/r/askTRP30/08/17 01:09 PM
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Week 15 Body Body weight 211 lbs, target: 176 lbs; BF: 21% target: ~15%. So one week vacation with the new girl. Yep I gained some weight and didn't went to the gym. Every missed training bugges me - I rationalize with something like: "Well its vacation, one week is not that bad, you need some regeneration phase". Well today I will see how much difference this week will make. Readings MMSLP NMMNG WISNIFG Models Way of the superior man Book of pook The Game 48 Laws of power Rational Male Meditati…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/17 09:43 AM
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Week 14 Body Body weight 209 lbs, target: 176 lbs; BF: 20% target: ~15%. Steadily progressing towards my goals. Lifting is a life changer. Readings MMSLP NMMNG WISNIFG Models Way of the superior man Book of pook The Game 48 Laws of power Rational Male Meditations by Marcus Aurelius Reading Rise and Fall of Dodo for recreation. So I don't read the recommended books right now... Mission and Relationship Trashed ex-wifes stuff. Almost everything is in boxes now. Now I am waiting for the green light…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/17 04:19 PM
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I don't count calories but I am under my needed intake. I loose some weight - not as much as in the first weeks - and the body fat scale tells me that I am losing fat. I looked into meal replacements since I am reluctant to cook for just one person. This could make calorie counting easy.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 08:33 PM
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So you recommend this? Actually I am going down the sidebar with the readings
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 03:53 PM
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Week 13 Body Body weight 211 lbs, target: 176 lbs; BF: ~20% target: ~15%. Nothing much in this category at the moment. I want to become more ripped - but I guess I have to make adjustments to my diet. I may have to adjust the squating weights - more reps less adding weights. Well I am near the beginners goals at 5x5. I am really thank full for lifting. It is the best thing I started this year. Readings MMSLP NMMNG WISNIFG Models Way of the superior man Book of pook The Game 48 Laws of power Rati…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 11:09 AM
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Sleep is fine about 8h a day Deadlift: 220lbs Row: 120 lbs
/r/askMRP13/08/17 01:00 PM
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Nah dude if I feel in the mood for shitposting I head over to /fit/
/r/askMRP13/08/17 10:31 AM
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Most of the times I work without spotter. I have a great guy I know from boxing who is in fact trainer and bodybuilder who I meet up to talk form from time to time but out working schedules don't allow it often. Safety: Well there are none. Just the rack with the weights. Is there any technique to get out under the weights if you break parallel and you can't get up from this position? So I did lets say 4 of 5 rep. and I stand there with the weight on my shoulders and feeling last one is gonna to…
/r/askMRP13/08/17 10:01 AM
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Week 12 Body Body weight 211 lbs, target: 176 lbs; BF: ~20% target: ~15%. I almost deadlift my body weight and I squat 198 lbs. Never thought this would be possible. I didn't get my T-Level checked. I guess I should do this just to get this cleared off my list. Readings MMSLP NMMNG WISNIFG Models Way of the superior man Book of pook The Game 48 Laws of power Rational Male Meditations by Marcus Aurelius Mission and Relationship Waiting. Waiting always brings me down. I wait for the moving date to…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 08:25 AM
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Age 29. Never checked T Level. Mostly office work. Then doing some exercises. Reading. Sleeping
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 03:16 PM
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1) My diet plan is low carb. Its not really a plan more avoiding carbs. 2) I am working out regularly for 11 weeks now. Since discovering RP.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 01:47 PM
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Week 11 Body Body weight 217 lbs target: 176 lbs. Gained some weight by not sticking to my diet. More important than weight seems to be body fat percentage, so I update my scale to one that can measure it. After some initial reduction on my weight in favor of form I am back on track now and increase steadily. Missed one workout last week - cause I mixed up opening hours at the gym. So at least I did something. I am still not anywhere close I want to be with my body in other words not ripped. I k…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 12:59 PM
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On Mobil so no wall of text: Don't believe your own bullshit. Following the sidebar will get you laid. You will find a passion by doing things. Until you found your real passion, your passion is following the sidebar. Extra: do stuff other people like and that sound fun to you. E.g. motocross bikes, bouldering, waterski. If you are all depressed lying in bed and you think I can't accomplish any of this: Don't believe your own bullshit. Start now.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 06:32 AM
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Week 10 Body Body weight 215 lbs target: 176 lbs. I meet up with a guy from boxing classes, who is also a fitness trainer - we gone through my forms and there is a lot room for improvement. Basically I moved to quick by cheating with my form. Nothing too bad, but I have to scale done the weight a bit. Readings MMSLP NMMNG WISNIFG Models Way of the superior man Book of pook The Game 48 Laws of power Rational Male Meditations by Marcus Aurelius Mission and Relationship I am on vacation which I use…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 11:16 AM
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First: this are all shittest. She might sleep with you yes, and this will make you her bitch. Second: You are are confusing lust with love. Do you need to quit your job? No you need to quit your oneite.
/r/askTRP22/07/17 08:09 AM
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Google morbid gain. You have it. Fucking depression. You tell me you don't have a passion beside lying in bed? Come on? You just don't follow your dream cause you are "depressed"? There must be something that is bothering you - and you just accept it, cause depression? So what's your deal man?
/r/askTRP22/07/17 08:00 AM
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Just replace being comforted by her with lying somewhere, her head on your chest while holding her tight. Works even better if you lift.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 08:53 AM
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I tend to lean back on OHP instead of getting them straight up. Should I think of reps with bad form as failed reps?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 12:11 PM
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Week 9 Body Body weight 215 lbs target: 176 lbs. 5x5 gets really hard - I am failing more often now. Overhead Press is my weakspot. Everything else is OK. Squats are getting really heavy (170 lbs). Boxing turns out great. I have so much more stamina! Readings MMSLP NMMNG WISNIFG Models Way of the superior man Book of pook The Game 48 Laws of power Rational Male Meditations by Marcus Aurelius Mission and Relationship Got my second plate up and got all the sex that I can have. I almost forgot that…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 10:52 AM
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Do you have sex? If yes - have more sex. If no - have more sex. Don't settle for less. If you have sex relaxe. Don't just jackhammer her all the time - just for the closer. Also Relax your muscles (especially pelvis). Tightening up will make you cum way faster.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 01:52 PM
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Hey wild_deer_man, we won't tell you that doing boxing 2 days a week is enough and that you are relieved from lifting. Stop making excuses for yourself. It's your life, you are in charge, your body is your tool, use it!
/r/askTRP15/07/17 03:17 PM
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Mad cow is basicly 5x5 but you add weight every week instead of every excersice. I am 9 weeks into 5x5 and 1 year in boxing. Works out fine together
/r/askTRP15/07/17 02:15 PM
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Marriage went to shit. Had the same ideal as you. Women want a redpill man. Was never easier to get laid. You don't have to lie just tell them that you don't want a LTR. See how things develop. In the movies it's: kiss -> LTR -> marriage. This is not real life. You can date for some time and have sex without being exclusive.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 12:38 PM
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Boxing 2 days a Week Lifting 3 days a Week. Why do you need any recommendation? Your body will adapt to the workload. Why did you quit 5x5? Are you on mad cow now?
/r/askTRP15/07/17 12:23 PM
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Good point.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 06:29 AM
1

Some wisdom from a friend of mine: "If you invite her over, she will know where you live, always got to her place" Second - don't ask. "I will be at your place at 10 on wednesday. I'll bring a movie. Have some popcorn ready" This way you bypassed the question if you are going to met and you can get right into logistics
/r/askTRP11/07/17 12:35 PM
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This would make her < 5
/r/askTRP11/07/17 12:04 PM
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So you want to hear from us, that this means you are 7.5? Did you take her home and ****** the living hell out of her? No? Then approach means nothing.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:58 AM
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No, could be a dozen other things as well. (Alpha Widdow, Betabux, etc)
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:48 AM
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Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:46 AM
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Week 8 Body Body weight 215 lbs target: 176 lbs. Lifting and Sports is going steady. No surprises here Readings MMSLP NMMNG WISNIFG Models Way of the superior man Book of pook The Game 48 Laws of power Rational Male Meditations by Marcus Aurelius Mission and Relationship Dated a second girl - scored - first time in 4 years with an other women than my ex-wife. I enjoyed it, but it still feels different. She enjoys the companie of a man, her last relationship was kind of beta. She enjoys not being…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 11:43 AM
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Ok you are like me and want to get a spoonfeed answer. I am not sure on your background so this might not apply to your situation. In general: Search for an activity that will move you towards your goals. Oh you don't have any goals? Here I give you some: Improve fitness and strength Improve finances Improve Survivability Improve Social Skills Ok what could be a fitting hobby in the first category? Climbing Sports, etc Second: get your finances in order learn basic book keeping start a small bus…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 01:36 PM
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Yeah but you are asking us if you are good enough. Maybe she is so exhausted from this great orgasm that she needs more time to recover.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 05:08 AM
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Damn you are right. Deep down I am not outcome independent. Like /u/TheBloodEagleX already stated. And I forgot all of the learning after a quick success...
/r/askTRP05/07/17 02:25 PM
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This doesn't work - got 4 matches but its always the one I have the most contact with that I am caring for. So now it is the one I dated. I guess its what /u/thro0owaw4y and /u/Aaren_Augustine wrote.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 11:01 AM
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Right on target. Women where always my main objective. I am doing the right things but with the wrong intention. I will meditate on this after lifting
/r/askTRP05/07/17 10:59 AM
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Readings done: MMSLP NMMNG WISNIFG Models Way of the superior man Book of pook The Game 48 Laws of power Rational Male Lift every other day + boxing Its pretty obvious you're going to make the same mistakes with every woman you're with until you fix you. Why am I doing this? Will reread PTSD and Void.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 10:55 AM
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Week 7 Body Body weight 216 lbs target: 176 lbs. Reduced weight from in favor for better form. Reduced the knee pain. I asked a sparing partner who is fitness trainer to correct my form. Stuff starts to fit quite nicely now. I had to buy new jeans and had to make a new notch in my belt, literally. Readings Discovered the Order of Man Podcast - not explicitly red pill but great material including an interview with Robert Glover. Still not much reading - I really have to pick up on this again. I r…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/17 12:35 PM
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Harsh but true none the less. I wanted to fix the relationship all the 30 days I am in. She saw that I made progress and dumped my sorry ass. She was not able to dump me before because she feared I could kill myself. At least I am now in a state where I can handle a breakup without dying. Yeah so now I can blame /r/mrp for all things that happened cause clearly it is not my fault. I should stop lifting, become fat again and return under my rock. I don't think so. Thanks for your post.
/r/askMRP27/06/17 02:11 PM
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She did. I didn't realized it until now. Thanks for the question. She led me to the point where I asked if she liked staying in the relationship. She said No. I said OK - we can handle this like adults and get a divorce. I think she killed the puppy
/r/askMRP27/06/17 01:07 PM
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I do 5x5 and it was boring in the beginning (started with just the bar) - now I see I should focused more on form then. I have to get some weight off and start with better form.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/17 10:33 AM
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Week 6 Body Body weight 218 lbs target: 176 lbs. Weight is going down again. Knee hurts from squats. I guess I am doing to much to quick. I will ask the trainer on my form. Readings Not much reading last week... MMSLP NMMNG WISNIFG Models Way of the superior man Book of pook The Game 48 Laws of power Rational Male Mission and Relationship Wife is moving out. We getting divorced. Seems to be the best course of action. Main Objectives: Getting the divorce done Join the Football team Get a better s…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/17 09:43 AM
2

Did you happen do read Bang by now?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 09:11 AM
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You need to set a course to understand being alone and comfortable being by yourself, does not mean loneliness. This is is the hard part. I get myself bussy atm, mostly sports.
/r/askMRP27/06/17 07:03 AM
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Like I would give a fuck :D
/r/askMRP27/06/17 07:01 AM
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Sorry for my pathetic display of betaism that you percepted as trolling. I don't want the relationship fixed. I am here to get me fixed. Since RP I started lifting. Lost 15 lbs. Be a happy man. Clearly I am not near any RP Ideal. So since the M in MRP is now fixed should I head over to RP? My Agenda now is: Lift Socialize get plates
/r/askMRP26/06/17 04:48 PM
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Nah dude, but I am feeling a little bit lost. I have a general direction but sometimes I feel a bit down.
/r/askMRP26/06/17 12:25 PM
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Yeah, she was the first in therapy. Off medication about a year.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 07:06 AM
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We are speaking week 5 here. All I have done is reading the sidebar, asking stupid questions on /r/askMRP and lifting. All the 'dread' came solely from me getting in Shape and my new Hands-On-Mentality.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 07:06 AM
3

I am off medication about 3 Month now. Major improvement came through mrp since I got my shit together.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/17 07:16 PM
2

I wished it all be trolling. I really do m8.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 04:00 PM
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Thanks for your post. This really helps. So what should I do? Are you talking ultimatum? I can't negotiate attraction and I can't negotiate respect. That's what I want in a relationship. I have to earn it. Sure easier with a new girl, but I bet I screw this up too at the current state. Divorce is no biggie here (non-US), at least you don't get fucked over so much. But you have to go to court to do all this stuff. And then there is no turning back. I could only tell her that I am planing to divor…
/r/askMRP20/06/17 03:54 PM
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Sex with you makes babies, but those babies die. We have talked another child but she also says she would always be in fear of complications. I am not sure if we both just should move on. But than again this feels like walking out on her
/r/askMRP20/06/17 03:03 PM
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On one side she was quite comfortable with my beta behavior. I let everything slip. Now that I am committed to improve myself and am not accepting bad behavior. She is constantly testing me with shit test and comfort tests. I guess she needs to see if I falter. She needs a reliable man who handles his shit. Who follows through. I can only demonstrate this not convince her by talking. On the bright side, since MRP laughter has returned to our house. Sometimes she really enjoys being with me. I gu…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/17 12:55 PM
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Nah - that was another post
/r/askMRP20/06/17 12:40 PM
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Ok what are my options here? I have some history with her, that really fuses us together. I really love her for what she has done, and I am to ashamed to show her the door, cause she was there for me in the hard times after the death of our daughter. I can see that she is acting like she wants to leave. But she would never admit it. Is there a way to fix this mess or is this a lost cause?
/r/askMRP20/06/17 11:32 AM
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I am not sure on this. Usually I would agree but not with her. I am maybe making excuses for my little snowflake. The reasoning behind my doubts is this: Things are fucked up since our daughter died 2 years ago. I failed handling the situation correctly and I got deep into a depression. So she got into the savior syndrome. Take it with a grain of salt - you know my posts and I am prone to fuck up. What she is telling me is that sex is a problem for her if she can't trust someone and she doesn't …
/r/askMRP20/06/17 10:43 AM
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Walking the dogs is about get up early and get the job done. You are right counting is BS. There is some fucked up history we had together. Basically it goes like this: Pregnant -> Married -> Child is in ICU -> Child dies -> Drunk Captain I feel obligated toward her, since she was there for me. She is not unrespectfull as in threatening me, or cursing at me. But I lost her respect for what I said to her and how badly I handled the situation after our daughter died. I am not sure if this counts a…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/17 10:23 AM
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Week 5 Body Body weight 222 lbs target: 176 lbs. Basically holding my weight while increasing loads. I guess that I gain muscle. Readings MMSLP NMMNG WISNIFG Models Way of the superior man Book of pook The Game 48 Laws of power Rational Male Past Let's address the elephant in the room. I got fucked up when my daughter died. I married my wife, when she was pregnant. Some weeks in the pregnancy she got back pains. Turned out this wasn't the typical pain women get when they get pregnant but her kid…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/17 09:11 AM
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Dark, depressing. Is your wife clinical depressed?
/r/askMRP19/06/17 03:21 PM
2

this sounds so bleak...
/r/askMRP19/06/17 03:11 PM
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Ok - what can I do to gain root access?
/r/askMRP18/06/17 02:51 PM
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So I better had asked how to create sexual tension. Lift -> Don't be unattractive, smile -> have you shit together -> be a fun person -> be social active and passive dread. Makes me realize I am not nearly there ...
/r/askMRP18/06/17 10:14 AM
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Yeah - I prefer this too. So I grabbed her. Turned her around and wanted to kiss her. She said stop. And that she is afraid when I do this. And I should take the slow road.
/r/askMRP18/06/17 08:28 AM
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Ok creating sexual tention - thats the point. I read in the MMSLP about it. SGM is an interesting book, but it jumps right to foreplay. I think my problem is pre foreplay. Damn I am not even that fat (25% - 20% body fat).
/r/askMRP18/06/17 05:53 AM
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Yeah I think so too. I am to clumsy at the approach. I have to be better at the seduction stuff
/r/askMRP18/06/17 05:44 AM
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We are married 3 years. She sometimes dresses up sexy for me. And she enjoys it. So she was telling me was that I am being to quick, that she does not feel comfortable. And I must admit that I not the most patient guy and rather throw her on the bed than ease her into it.
/r/askMRP17/06/17 07:55 PM
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Well it's not even duty sex - this I could figure out. It takes some time to get her engine running, but then she really enjoys it. The Sex God Method surely adds some nice stuff, you should read it, if you haven't. It lies around somewhere at /r/redpillbooks
/r/askMRP17/06/17 07:21 PM
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I would get this if she right out refuses sex. Or make some excuses. I even presented her an easy way out. You say - don't listen to what women say. Then again she has sex with me. Chad Thundercock would badly fumble around the same movements, and your wife would coo about how smooth and wonderful he is. It's not your actions, it's you. My pre married sex experiences where like this. So I am wondering - she somehow needs to be eased into it. I guess this is due unattractiveness. Man It just scat…
/r/askMRP17/06/17 06:51 PM
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I am not cool with this if it is true. 'nough said.
/r/askMRP17/06/17 06:02 PM
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My wife is really keeping up on her end. At some point she couldn't take bare it anymore and had sleepovers by friends. Dude I never questioned it. I guess she was faithful.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 08:09 PM
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All mental health issues are weaknesses. There are three solutions to weaknesses: Solve them yourself; get professional help to solve them; or else hide them so well—and act counter to them at every opportunity so completely—that they eventually disappear. You identified and executed. You solved the problem.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 04:44 PM
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So True. Full Disclosure: Got married, was depressed. Wife stays at my side. After 1 and a half year of depression my SMV is rock bottom like -10. Discover TRP and MTRP. Read the sidebar. Start Lifting. Get off medication. Depression is gone. SMV is still so low my wife fucking fucks me only when she is ovulating. This stuff sticks. I were talking with my wife before about this stuff and she told me: "It is like taking care of a child. And this doesn't make me wanna have sex with you." Conclusio…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 02:29 PM
1

There are always goth chicks.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 02:34 PM
2

In a way, you're lucky that you lack self-discipline, because if you actually could force yourself to just do it even though none of it means anything to you, you would just spend your life doing meaningless shit you that you hate and wondering why there's such a big hole in your soul. Can confirm. I have very strong discipline. I have no vision. It got me far. But it made me depressed. All the stuff I have done wasn't for me.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 07:28 AM
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It's like waking up from a life of failure and depression. Everything is in question now. I've been outside every day since the post, just hanging out, walking through the city or grabbing a coffee. I smile, hold eye contact, train the right posture. And I get smiles back. Communication, well, I don't know much people, but I try to socialize. At the gym and at the boxing club. I need something for the weekends though. Past me, was always at home, waiting for the wife to throw me a bone. I ruined…
/r/askMRP14/06/17 12:47 PM
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I guess you refer to chapter 9 Get the Life you Want. When I complete a project or something I am interessted in its more like completing a Layer More like a great emptiness inside.
/r/askMRP14/06/17 09:22 AM
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It wasn't me either :p
/r/askMRP13/06/17 07:33 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JJ5iCcKzg2Q
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 07:28 PM
1

Can you recommend some pua videos on yt? Shoulder pain: are you sure you are doing the bench press right? Are you retracting the scapular while doing the pressed?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 06:57 PM
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Where can I explore this underground? I am mainly in Germany doing business - not much socializing, since all the drones drive home after work.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 10:42 AM
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The single greatest enemy of discipline is rationalization This. So much. Let's take workout. I do a 10 Minute cardio. 5 Minutes running and 5 minutes rowing. Every now and then there is a voice in my head telling me: "Ah 5 minutes is just fine. I am warmed up already." I handle this like every other shittest. Ignore and go on as planed.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 09:42 AM
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I know some germans, this dudes just life to work. Don't get me wrong. There is nothing wrong with hard working. They earn good money but they are afraid spending it on themselfs. They all have a wife and spend it on her. The german dream: Work hard. Have a wife. Buy a house. They do this and then they are 40 something and don't have a clue what to do with the rest of their life.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 09:24 AM
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Week 4 Body Body weight 220 lbs target: 176 lbs. Constant gains. Working on my posture. (Retract that Scapula) Readings MMSLP NMMNG WISNIFG Models Way of the superior man Book of pook The Game 48 Laws of power Mission and Relationship I must say I still don't get all that behavior my throws at me. And I seem to fail constantly. But I fail better every day. I am working on my frame and I am more fun around. This is appreciated. The whole tragedy is here: https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/6…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 08:59 AM
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"You think I am just shit testing you, don't you?" "No I think you mean XY dead serious!" (with a sarcastic undertone) "Now you just AM me!" "Yes you are right! I do the whole playbook on you - wait till we are in bed" wink And you should have asked obere here /r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/17 06:21 PM
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Can't be that hard to separate the two of us. I have numbers in my handle. Chiwawa has this dog thing going. Like you are the guy who fucks the world with his spiritual boner and 88Will88, well he likes mr robot.
/r/askMRP12/06/17 11:34 AM
1

We are from the same country. Northern Europe.
/r/askMRP12/06/17 10:58 AM
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I guess this is a technic to apply when you are in the process of giving a fuck and stop giving a fuck. A method to unfuck yourself in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 09:18 AM
1

Guess so... calling me Chad is a way not to acknowledge that I was purely an asshole. Guess what I did was switching from the "I am so bad" Nice guy to the "I am so nice" Nice guy. Medieval Fare: I was there with red pill in mind. And I saw so much potential but so much losers. I assume you are in America - I am in the old Country. We have tradition. In my country there are old castles everywhere. Guess in America an medieval fare is out of place like an american civil war reenactment would be h…
/r/askMRP12/06/17 08:56 AM
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The sad state is, I am not trolling. Yep my communication is awefull. And english is not my first language. What I actually said is: "Since we have some time on out hands, let's go upstairs ... " Yeah I was asking to be rejected with this bullshit.
/r/askMRP12/06/17 08:37 AM
1

Indeed there is a gun club here
/r/askMRP11/06/17 06:43 PM
1

For quick shaves I use the safety razor. Same blades as the shavette.
/r/askMRP11/06/17 06:01 PM
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Yeah I like to share my bullshit stuff so you are entertained. Aren't you entertained?!
/r/askMRP11/06/17 09:21 AM
1

Thanks you are right. For me its a huge shift to be an actual fun person. I know you can't negotiate attraction. My wife is not mentally attracted to me. At least not often. That's because I am not fun. The method for this is simple: before you enter a situation, simply take a moment to pause, consciously decide on your frame, and hold that frame in your mind. To remind myself to do this I practiced consciously deciding on a frame whenever I walked through a doorway. You could choose a similarly…
/r/askMRP11/06/17 07:24 AM
-1

Sadly this shit was already in motion as I posted it the other day.
/r/askMRP11/06/17 03:54 AM
2

I found the whole book super esoteric. Did I miss something in there?
/r/askMRP10/06/17 08:22 PM
1

I quit porn an added maintaining the house. Rest is spot on.
/r/askMRP10/06/17 10:02 AM
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Lifting is strong since 1 month. I am starting to look like a social guy. But it is not in me. I have time at hands today. Asked my wife if she would enjoy a round of sex. Of course she said no. Well I asked. Asking is really bad. So I said it's cool and I am going somewhere in the City. She asked where. I said idk yet. Wether is nice I grap a coffee somewhere. Fogged me out of the talk about leaving if I don't get sex. Now I walk around in the City. But it's not ideal. Got a "don't do Anything …
/r/askMRP10/06/17 10:01 AM
2

I started with the safety razor. You can just switch without any learning. Straight Razor took me a week or two till I wasn't afraid anymore. It is relatively easy though, I was just a pussy
/r/askMRP10/06/17 03:52 AM
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Learn how to shave with a straight razor or if you don't want to do all the maintenance use a Shavette. Shavettes are more easy to clean and you can change the blade. Use regular razor blades and break them in half, no need to buy half blades. Take your time and shave after a shower. Use shaving foam and after shave. This is some old school cool shit and it saves you a bunch of money you would spend for this fancy quadruple bladed blades that are more expensive than printers ink. (100 blades are…
/r/askMRP09/06/17 06:59 AM
2

I didn't have all the witty comeback but I got some of them. To be honest all the accusations made me chuckle. They maped to so much stuff that's on the sidebar. What finally got her was advanced fogging. Or as she called mindreading. Than I told her that men and women are not equal. I am calm when she is emotional and thats a good thing cause if we both where emotional things would go south. I made clear that I totally understand her by expressing her emotion and also made clear that I have a d…
/r/askMRP09/06/17 05:39 AM
3

I still got the value and I set some enforceable boundaries last night. Now I did my new routine of being on deck first. Walked the dogs, made breakfast. She was still in bed and after showering I initiated. Waited for the hard no. Got myself dressed and told her that I would be early to work today. She was almost at tears at this moment. Arguing that we always leave together. So I asked her what she got to offer. Settled for a cup of coffee. Ah and guess what. Checked Clue yesterday: 1st day of…
/r/askMRP09/06/17 05:12 AM
1

I remember and I remember that you told me that I am rewarding her behavior. Well now she tried this crying tactic again but I told her that we could talk when she comes home again. I am so done with this bullcrap.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 08:33 PM
1

How to STFU if you get a direct question? "Do you even care about me?" "Uh uhm" Does this work this way?
/r/askMRP08/06/17 08:29 PM
2

Regarding Lifting and Diet: Just do it. Do you have this voice in your head? That voice that tells you: Dude, you totally can not go lifting today! You had some rough day, training will only make it worse. Here grab a beer sit down unwind. Sounds familiar? This is a shit test against yourself by yourself. And you know how to handle shit tests - ignore and carry out the plan. If the plan is lifting today, then you will lift today.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 07:47 AM
3

Come on bro. I have hundreds of people calling me out on this. Before posting I didn't even realize that I this sucks and I fucked up. Now 30 people giving me the hard truth. This is harsh but I am listening. Don't call me idiot.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 03:58 AM
1

Real modern axe? This would go through this shit like butter, maybe not the chainmail but it would break bone
/r/askMRP07/06/17 03:21 PM
1

So the pretext is that they have to work out something hobby related. Good news is, I had steak, I will go to the gym after I get my haircut done. Bad News, my wife might be fucking some other dude while I work on myself. Her loss not mine
/r/askMRP07/06/17 03:14 PM
1

It's not lame cause I enjoy it. DTF chicks are a bonus. My wife is chubby, the kid is skinny.
/r/askMRP07/06/17 02:17 PM
1

Medieval Armour somewhat dampens the effects of getting hit with sticks
/r/askMRP07/06/17 02:14 PM
0

Same as sparring while boxing. Just don't beat people to shit. On the gay as fuck side, yeah if you are an overweight fat ass who tries to play some magician, that's true. If you are somewhat in shape than there are some nice girls that are "just role-playing" to fuck you. This said, it all depends on your frame, your alpha behavior, which I both lack but at least I am not an magician
/r/askMRP07/06/17 01:19 PM
1

LARP
/r/askMRP07/06/17 12:53 PM
-1

this rings a bell
/r/askMRP07/06/17 10:25 AM
-1

Yeah, he lives at his mom's and is basically a kid. I am 100% positive they don't fuck. It buggers me in principle, cause you are right. I allowed it in the past. Damn it, if I had any suspicions I would have a reason to next her. The only reason she is spending a night there is that it is a long drive and they prepare some shit for their hobby - which I also share but I kept myself out of it for a year or so due to depression and stuff, well basically because of being AFC
/r/askMRP07/06/17 09:08 AM
-4

If I had any suspicion that she fucked him I would next her. Dude he is basically a kid and lives at his mothers. I know its fucked up. I allowed it preRP. I am not sure which action to take. I could say no but since I allowed it before she would ask for reasons. I guess her line of argument would be something like: "This was no problem before" and "You know I wouldn't sleep with other men". I have no good arguments against this, so I would just repeat that I won't allow it. So she would be piss…
/r/askMRP07/06/17 09:03 AM
1

Body Body weight plateau around 224 lbs target is 176 lbs. Got somewhat better at boxing since I started lifting. People begin to recognize the change. I am getting more muscular. Readings MMSLP NMMNG WISNIFG Models Way of the superior man Book of pook The Game Way of the superior man was way to spiritual for me. There are some cool concepts and it definitely clicked some times. I also enjoyed the meditations but it comes across kind of new age nuts. My takeaway: The inner voice is to be ignored…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 06:25 AM
1

This is deering :)
/r/askMRP07/06/17 05:31 AM
1

Nah I just thought about a disclaimer before ruining other people's life ;)
/r/askMRP05/06/17 12:55 PM
2

I am pretty new to mrp so if I am telling bullshit, please set me straight. Here is my view on things: So you tell us that this is hard? Well we are all in the same shit like you are. We all know this shit is hard but we all see results when we stick to the plan. Holly fuck would I love this shit to be easy. I would love to just slack away, get fat, never work hard and archive all I want from life plus the feeling that I deserved it. This is not how its going to work. It is sweet, blood and tear…
/r/askMRP04/06/17 08:48 PM
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Ok so some things didn't turn out as you wished? And this makes you feel down? This is not very OI. But right we all get there from time to time. It depends how you want to handle it. Sometimes you just do an extra round at the gym other times you do something fun instead. Your wife can tell that something is off so she is testing you, naturally. My wife use to ask me what's going on at those times. I give her some technical details like: "Yeah I am thinking about how to do X and Y at work but I…
/r/askMRP04/06/17 06:52 AM
6

Ok. So you are prepared for the final stage but you didn't even start the program right? Ok take you time to prepare your leave and try out all the concepts you can learn here with your wife until you next her. First get in shape. Start lifting. Read the side bar - maybe start with the book of pook since you don't care for you marriage anyway. Get the right frame, get game and you are on your way. But: don't just next her, get a new girl, create the same situation you are in now cause you don't …
/r/askMRP03/06/17 08:23 AM
3

/u/man_in_the_world link me to a great answer on advanced fogging. Specially useful, if you have to answer emotionally without deering
/r/askMRP03/06/17 05:18 AM
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I thought about this too to be honest. I look forward how this will turn out in the long run. My rational was to shoe her that I am there when shit goes down and she can depend on me. The cigarettes where an inside joke at this point. It would have been sufficient that I showed on. I knew that this would break overall performance and would be a display of betaness. She yielded, that was enough at this point. I see how this can be interpreted the other way round
/r/askMRP31/05/17 07:08 PM
4

Wow almost the same story as mine. Wish you luck! And hit the gym asap! Testosteron is a killer for depression. I also like boxing - it is great to get some punches to the head if you slack off ;)
/r/askMRP31/05/17 04:47 PM
2

Sometimes this sub sounds like waging a full fledged war with your wife over dominance and power...
/r/askMRP30/05/17 06:55 PM
1

Either I keep my promise and I will be a better man or none of this matters at all. Its not brave - might just be stupid, as /u/Scruvemuch pointed out. I basicly told her, that I am doing it all for her. Well I guess I do, or at least I did in the beginning, but I can see it more and more that I am doing this for me. Keeping my wife, who I deeply love, is merely a side effect. To be honest - I came here for the sex. But I can see how my life changes out of my pure will and this is fucking awesom…
/r/askMRP30/05/17 03:23 PM
1

Thanks for the links, they are most usefull
/r/askMRP30/05/17 03:14 PM
3

I am an Idiot. Thanks man!
/r/askMRP30/05/17 03:14 PM
3

She talked. But this sounds about right.
/r/askMRP30/05/17 10:30 AM
2

Well I want her to be Part of my Life yes. I choose her as my partner for good reason. Doing it for her. No, she would be fine if I would be the fat accommodating beta pussy worshipper that I was. Is there a place reserved for her at the ride: Yes. Will it kept open indefinitely and unconditionally? No. Might not be hardcore red pill. Might also make my mission harder.
/r/askMRP30/05/17 10:22 AM
2

Body Lost 4 lbs, sport still 4 days a week. Things are going well Readings MMSLP NMMNG WISNIFG Models Way of the superior man Book of pook Game Almost none. Game from a business trip and had the expection that she would be all over me, but nope. was buthurt but headed for the gym. Business trip went nice I trained in meeting new people and having conversation. Rule of thumb: If I was afraid of it, I had to do it. Compiled a MAP and following it through. Somewhat screw up I guess by not STFU (see…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 09:01 AM
1

Tbh: I don't know. But midly at most. I guess I am just clumsy in social situation and need to learn more how to deal with them. I was more kind of a loner.
/r/askMRP30/05/17 08:13 AM
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Yeah, the STFU part needs working. She got me with: "You are so emotional distant. You just say hmm and ok but you don't talk to me"
/r/askMRP30/05/17 08:00 AM
1

Only out of house activities are gym and boxing at the moment. I have to get some friends and get out doors. This doesn't come naturally to me since yeah I am under foot of my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 08:28 AM
1

Easy stuff, like Green in MAP. But I should work on the Red areas
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 08:24 AM
2

Thanks I was on the wrong track than
/r/askMRP23/05/17 02:05 PM
5

It came up with the readings and I was asking myself what is a plate in context of a marriage
/r/askMRP23/05/17 12:31 PM
1

Yeah, I guess I sound lost. I am posting much, to get things right. The readings from the sidebar are good, but I have to break up a lifetime of Betaness. The perspective from out sight is important to me. I guess I am seeking guidance.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 11:19 AM
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Body Lost 10 lbs, and sports 4 days a week. Lifting and Boxing. Diet: Low Carp Readings MMSLP, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rational Male I got to reread most of it and internalize it. Game Still a lot of beta and no game. Working through the Weeks of Dread (Week 3). Have to acquire a mindset. Began to pass shittest and ceased to be buthurt, but I am stoll missing the abundance mentality. Having her to want me for sex ... nope its the other way round. I am not really sure where I am going. And I still have t…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 10:14 AM
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Yeah - background on this: Been to therapies and got some meds. Got better, and I am off meds now. Took my life back, but MRP gave me a boost in getting my life back on track. WISNIFG states that depression is a form coping mechanism for frustration and I can see how this is true for me. MRP really helps
/r/askMRP23/05/17 07:38 AM
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Any advice on how to be a man? On how to get in the right mindset?
/r/askMRP23/05/17 07:23 AM
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I am doing stronglifts. I am not going Rambo. I really like my wife. And my wife likes me to lead. The sex problem stems from missing trust - and this is because I lost my frame in the past plus victim pukes. I came here for the sex but what you gave me was purpose
/r/askMRP21/05/17 05:29 PM
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If my wife needs help, I don't wait to be asked This just shifted my mind. I am wasting opportunity to lead. Combined with something like "I don't want you to get exhausted by me not by hauling the groceries". She will roll her eyes but I know this will work. Other option would be saying something caring like "You must be exhausted from shopping (grinning) Just leave the bags, I will carry them inside, and then I will carry you inside" Just out of the top of my head. Thanks man
/r/askMRP21/05/17 12:03 PM
1

What does OYS mean? I can't find it in the wiki
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/17 06:04 AM
5

Why did you settle for a 4 in first place? If you assert the situation right, than there is little chance for the relationship. Don't fuck the hottie till divorce is through so, it will fuck over your chances in court. How long did it take you to get to an 8? How long are you in the dread game?
/r/askMRP20/05/17 07:31 PM
1

I prefer to keep it separate. Everyone pays equally die Community Stuff (water, Energy, internet, grocery) privat bills are paid seperatly.
/r/askMRP19/05/17 04:33 AM
2

Dude it's week 2 for me - I can't read all this stuff at once man. EDIT: You are right, I didn't, I can't even read bro
/r/askMRP18/05/17 06:59 PM
0

What means AA? Can you explain this shittest to me how to defuse it?
/r/askMRP18/05/17 05:38 PM
3

Ok that's a good call. I tend to do this...
/r/askMRP17/05/17 01:49 PM
2

she won't tell you what she's attracted to >and what you can do to increase it. She'll just >throw shit tests at you and try to lure you >into being more beta. Don't listen to what she >says. She told me that she likes me kinda chubby (She is thick too, but that's my kink) And also she wants me soft (beta) and fears that if I am more alpha I be a asshole. So being quit New this is something that shakes my frame. I guess she wants to hold me in her frame and doesn't want changes. Trying to keep m…
/r/askMRP17/05/17 07:21 AM
2

Well a compliment : )
/r/askMRP12/05/17 09:06 PM
1

Well sometimes I feel sorry saying no or not failing a shit test. I guess reading WISNIFS is the answer to that. But Ian not a fast reader so yeah
/r/askMRP12/05/17 09:40 AM
1

Ok that's a mistake I made.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 06:26 AM
2

Damn ok fake it till you make it seems to be a bad advice here...
/r/askMRP12/05/17 05:37 AM
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