Question about Sluts...

tracer123 · 2014-09-08T23:44:20+00:00

Sluts are generally thought of as seeking validation and approval, not great attributes in a normal, well rounded individual.

Piroko · 2014-09-08T23:49:19+00:00

There's a difference between "avoid" and "refuse to commit to".

Single men generally won't refuse an easy notch. But that's all it is.

themoor · 2014-09-09T01:21:34+00:00

Most guys love sluts. Yes, they are bubbly, fun, and often (not always) a good lay.

But their either inability or lack of interest in bonding to a man makes them poor candidates for LTRs. And even if they have the interest, their high N count makes them increasingly lose the ability to bond in a way worthy of a LTR. But they do not often realize this.

Also, the higher the N count, the more likely there was/is a guy in her past that surpasses the degree of alpha-tingles and/or experiences you can give her (your mileage may vary, of course, depending on YOU). Again, women, especially the younger ones, don't realize this (though, see the recent spate of posts on the article from the British woman who laments her tingles from former alphas and still laments their disappearnce in her life and her 40-year husband's inability to do the same... we call them, "alpha widows").

And some guys don't realize their higher N count does the same to them, but less so and it's slower/less dramatic. Still. guys lust for variety, especially hot variety.

Red Pill guys do understand that their N count effects them less than women, generally, but I think they UNDER-estimate its reality.

I know this first hand... though that's no basis for generalization, of course, but in my mid-late 40s, I admit that I've realized my desire for variety had crept into my relationships since my late 30s, which by then I had been with at least 50 women.

WillClickOnAnything · 2014-09-09T00:51:21+00:00

Sluts often have very bubbly, flirty and fun personalities.

You ever been around one that was sober?

Gami_Lon · 2014-09-09T00:30:44+00:00

I think it's important to distinguish between quality and quantity.

For instance I LOVE SEX but I avoid making new partners like the plague.

I'm not fucking men to stroke my ego, I'm fucking men because I enjoy sex. When I find a man that's sexually compatible I'm willing to fuck him twice a day. But I would prefer to keep him around for as long as possible.

Opuz · 2014-09-09T03:38:13+00:00

I don't avoid sluts, I just don't take them seriously. I have no issue having a great time, hanging out, or getting physical with sluts. They will just never be anything more, fun girls are only good for fun.

FortunateBum · 2014-09-09T04:15:08+00:00

I love sluts.

That said, two things.

1) There's a general schism on TRP with some guys loving sluts and some guys hating them. A third group says they love them but only for sex.

2) There aren't really many "real" sluts in the world. A lot of these women are really looking for love. They think if they fuck a guy enough he'll girlfriend her. (Girls on vacation and/or traveling are a notable exception - take advantage!) My whole life I've been on the lookout for sluts. That is, chicks who are DTF, no strings attached. If they exist, either I'm invisible to them or they don't exist in large numbers. Another way to get NSA sex is if she's in a relationship. Anyway, good luck out there.

Strongproudwoman · 2014-09-09T04:15:42+00:00

Sluts are great for all kinda of things. But they absolutely are not LTR/marriage material.

oldredder · 2014-09-09T09:45:45+00:00

A high number leads to a failure to pair-bond and that failure is life-long.

I suspect it's the same for men as for women.

I have no idea what the number is for each man or woman but there is a number. Rather than "hating on" I suggest being aware of when you think the woman's on the wrong side of the boundary & if so, no LTR for her. Whatever else you want to do, go for it, it's your life.

My number isn't high, only 10, and personally I feel at 4th I crossed the pair-bonding boundary. All the ones after was zero chance of pair-bonding and honestly, I doubt I will ever again have it in my life. The desire is zero. I'm not a man-whore either, just my boundary is perhaps low because it's a combination of genes, instinct & life experience that tells me what I'd like to find doesn't exist so I am not looking for it anymore. Any more wet pussy coming my way is welcome for entertainment purposes only I don't value romance even as much as I value half a ham sandwich.

thinktankman · 2014-09-09T12:31:15+00:00

There is nothing wrong with a slut if you know how to maintain frame Patrice O'Neal talked a lot about his girl being a whore and how he maintained frame.

redpillshadow · 2014-09-08T23:48:33+00:00

You are missing the search function. This question gets asked at least twice a week.

Title	Question about Sluts...
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Date	September 8, 2014 11:34 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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