So today I was messing with my wife, giving her some jokingly spanking (kinda usual play between us, we do it in everyone's sight). Afterwards she tells me that a family member who is a criminal police investigator, asked if I was hitting her. I laughed it off, but wtf, where is this coming from? This policeman knows us since we've started dating, which is many years ago. I have no clue what triggered it, really. I don't hit my wife, never have. Since TRP I'm more stoic than ever. Probably more harsh and direct in some aspects, but we don't even fight (why would I fight her? we know that doesn't produce any results). Really don't know what to think of it. Thoughts?