I run with a pack of women. Yeah - I know. But I married during my blue pill phase and the marriage is working. I've started making changes, but it's going to be slow. The alternative is a divorce rape of my own.
(Don't marry boys, just find a woman who hates you and give her a house.)
In any case, one of the women in my outer circle is going through a rough patch. The dude has handled things badly, I have to admit. He's in the army, gone abroad, and decided he wanted out. He totally beta-ed the decision. She was completely blind-sided when she didn't get her paperwork from the army to follow him abroad. The army had to tell her he'd never filed the paperwork to join him.
A bunch of drama later, she's pissed.
And now I'm listening to that mess of harpies help her plan to dick him over. The plan now is to drag her feet on the divorce process so that she will have been married to him for five years. That will entitle her to HALF HIS PENSION.
I don't even know the dude, and I admit he's been a douche. But she went from "what's wrong between us" to "I'm going to skin him, eat him, and use his shin-bone for a pencil box" in less than three weeks.
My takeaway - act decisively and quickly. Well, that and don't marry in the first place.
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