Basically in an arrangement right now where I'm maintaining a main girl and have one plate. After seeing my plate for a casual evening my main girl came over afterwards fairly histerical. She began giving me a hard time about seeing other women and specifically stated the quote listed in the title. I think I seen it as a shit test at the time (shit test versus comfort test) and actually lost frame beginning to defend myself on how my plate isn't actually my girlfriend.

I've been working on my SMV for about a year now and have had my main girl pretty close to me throughout this time. As a result of dread she's substantially improved her own SMV (goes to the gym daily, healthy eating, good grades in college, maintains orbiters). Needless to say after she shit tested me we ended up going clubbing and afterwards had a marathon sex session. Looking for clarification here on shit tests, as well as maintaining main girls while plating others. Should I be trying to get more plates? Am I at a point with my main that I should seriously consider demoting her/hard next (she's been escalating her behaviors, is extremely jealous in public and sometimes will verbally disrespect when I have a conversation with another women infront of her).

Edit: I should also mention that what got my main girl particularly heated in respect to this post is that she seen me that day with my plate doing stretches at our local gym. After seeing me she smiled then sort of slapped tapped me in the back of the head while my plate was bent over stretching. I should mention I live in a particularly small city which makes spinning plates a little bit challenging and often more of a social circle game.