Approached this girl in a bar 2 weeks ago. Got her number. She's 21. I'm 34. We clicked really well that night. Short and to the point.
We meet up for a dinner, due to a conversation we had the day we met about this specific place. We clicked even better. We were on the same vibe, joking and a lot of fun. She was really enjoying it.
After dinner, we went for a walk, where I went in for a kiss, cause it all seemed going to be perfect - were she rejected the kiss, saying "I don't kiss on a first date".
That killed my vibe a little bit, but I didn't let it feel, so we kept talking, I played with her hair, did kino, touching her hands, legs. And she reacted fine to it. Probably she has a high ASD. She has before mentioned that she useed to live with a BF, which was cheating on her, ALL throughout their relationship and she found out only after a year of being with him.
The mistakes I did, was that 1) she said she was going home and was going to walk towards the bus station. I said I'm not planning going home, so I'll walk with her to the bus station. and I did. 2) After her bus left, i sent her a meme which resembled a situation about her bus leaving. Joke was pretty funny and not needy, but i think i didn't had to do it. She replied with an emoji. I didn't reply back.
During our conversation, She mentioned some event and I said let's go there next week, she said she can't, cause next week her family is arriving(which is true, she told me the day we met about that).
I know I fucked this up probably. I am lifting, I am on my purpose and I am banging another 22 year old chick - but this one really got me, cause we clicked very well. She was a lot of fun.
How do act further? Do I still have a chance or I blew it?
I am thinking to not contact her until the weekend after next, and offer to take her out somewhere.
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