How is life like for older guys with a decent SMV if they live in a college town?

trplurker · 2014-09-18T05:52:06+00:00

Older meaning anywhere from 24 to 30.

That is not old.... in the slightest. "Older guys" usually refers to someone who is 40+. I'm 32yo and living in a city that has three major university's and a dozen minor ones. My 1500 sq feet high rise apartment is about two to three blocks from the night life center and I drive a BMW with less then 20 thousand kilometers on it. This isn't to brag but to give you an idea of where my perspective is from.

I can swim in young 19~24yo pussy whenever I want, and for awhile that is exactly what I did. I would fuck tons of young girls even before I took the pill, would fall for one and it would end badly. One of the primary drivers for me taking the pill was the consistency of the pattern, I would be out clubbing / partying and hookup with some young cute chick. Everything would be fine as long as I treated her like a casual sex partner but the moment I went into "relationship mode", BAM sex got horrible and the relationship deteriorated. Got pissed from having to constantly reinvest into newer relationships and eventually stumbled across TRP, which solved those problems.

I still keep a few girls around that I will sleep with when I feel the need but it's no longer a huge issue. Getting young college pussy is easy if your life is already established and you have a successful career. Your not worrying about food money or if you can afford to go out and have fun, you can afford to have a comfortable place and will have hobbies and shit to do. The huge drawback is access. When your a student you have daily access to attractive chicks by proximity, your competition isn't that high status either so quick bangs are easy. Once your out of university and older, you no longer have that constant access to new chicks to fuck, instead you need to make your lifestyle such that it orbits the same places they do. You can't just show up to parties without knowing someone there, so you need to make friends in that same circle. In my case it's that I was good friends with a bunch of grad students in the more prestigious university in my city. We would all go hang out and have a blast and would party with the undergrad students. My second method of access was a female friend who was working on her masters degree in business. She wasn't that attractive and we didn't have sexual chemistry, but she was a blast to hang with and could drink most guys under the table. She was pretty awesome about parties and would invite (order really) the undergrad females in her university to come out and I'd bring some of my buddies, big parties were had at my apartment quite often with me ended up with one of the undergrad students in my bedroom. I kept a spare bedroom fully outfited, including condoms in the top drawer near the bed and extra towels and tissue, just so my buddies would have a place to shag girls.

And this is all in South Korea in one of the most conservative citys. It would be even easier in the USA, with many universities having volunteer programs, hobby clubs and mentorship programs.

Bouncing_Back · 2014-09-18T05:23:48+00:00

I'm 33, and swimming in pussy.

Artemisnotfowl · 2014-09-18T02:46:47+00:00

Might get downvoted for my post but I think a lot of guys in here need to know this about being an older guy in a college town who wants to go after college girls.

I went to the kind of university OP describes, huge state school situated in a college town with major sports programs and a lot of hot girls. What you find at colleges like this is that there is a very powerful sense of a community among the students, you don't realize this until you have stayed at these universities as a student. I was in a fraternity back in college and our frat threw some of the biggest parties, had a lot of rich and upper middle class kids, and the guys in it were paired with some of the best looking sorority girls. I won't say that we were the best fraternity on campus but we were up there.

For a lot of guys, the universities you describe are a mirage. You are constantly surrounded by a lot of hot girls on a daily basis but most of them want the guys they perceive as high status, these are also the guys who do most of the fuck or as some call them, the "20%". Most of the 20% consists of athletes and frat boys who are members of the best fraternities on campus, some of the other guys like those who have their own house and throw their own parties round out that 20% but that is about it. The 20% are the guys who get to have sex with the hot girls you see walking around on campus and almost exclusively as well. So you see, getting the blonde bombshell sorority girl is difficult even for a good looking student that isn't associated with greek life because so much of college is about status. You have around 20,000-50,000 kids packed in a certain area that go to classes together and see each other on a consistent basis, cliques form fast and all 4 years girls worry about what their sisters (sorority) and close friends will think if they hook up with a certain guy.

College is a lot of pre-selection going on, the hot girls have already decided who they want to get fucked by when they go out which means the PUA material doesn't fly too well in such places. In all of my 4 years of college, I didn't know one good looking girl that dated an older guy/non-student, not too sure about whether or not they slept with one. My girlfriend was in one of the sorority on more attractive sororities on campus and she told me about how she would have older guys that looked good hit on her only to have to turn them down because the risk of her sisters finding out was far too high and could ruin her entire reputation. It's a paradox, college girls are stereotypically sluts but no college girl wants to be known as the slut.

So you see, the way college in the US is set up (mainly due to greek life), an older guy that isn't a part of the community even if he had good looks and a high SMV would struggle to get the hottest girls on campus. Even a lot of the good looking guys in college can't get those girls unless they have status (athlete or frat boy) so for a non-student it becomes harder. A way around this is to just move to a place where these college girls vacation and sleep with them there.

The media has made up a lie about college and created all these unrealistic expectations about hooking up that most young men just can't meet. Sorry to burst your bubble readers but at the campuses that are like what OP describes, it is tough to get the hot girls you see walking around because only a select number of guys are really an option in their eyes.

GuitarHero07 · 2014-09-18T14:50:52+00:00

I'm almost 30. In my experience, you are right about the cliques. The hot sorostitutes tend to exclusively bang frat boys and college athletes. There is a definite social hierarchy in college. The very hottest girls will only go for the guys at the top of the pyramid and they will stay I their social circle. Heck even when I was in college, the sorority chicks wouldn't give me the time of day.

But there are plenty of hot girls that aren't in sororities. If you can get into one social circle, there are plenty of available options. What's wonderful about college girls is that they're easy to impress.....if you have your own place, a decent car and some beers, that's plenty.

If you want a girl that's a little bit more mature, there's always the graduate students as well. These girls are a little bit more attuned to the "real world" and they can appreciate your hard earned success a bit more than most 20 year olds.

prodigyx · 2014-09-18T19:32:56+00:00

I'm almost 30 now. Stayed in my college's town since I graduated up until a couple weeks ago. Was drowning in pussy the whole time. Banging college girls is like shooting fish in a barrel. I do have to qualify though: this was not a major party school or one known for having a lot of hot girls, so I imagine it gets more difficult at places like Florida St, UCSB. I did spend a bit of time at Syracuse and had a lot of success.

It helps a lot to be able to demonstrate high social value. If you are the 30 yr old that all the frat guys talk about like you are a legend, then you can literally have any girl that walks through the doors of the house.

It gets boring. All the girls are dumb and annoying as hell. Eventually you will want more out of life. That being said, I don't regret a minute of it. 10/10 would highly recommend it.

cocaine_face · 2014-09-18T03:52:21+00:00

As a 29 year old in a major college town, I've had no problem dating cute college girls.

oldredder · 2014-09-18T04:23:59+00:00

I live in a college town and in my mind 30s. I don't recommend it. It's very cliche and young girls get wierded out a bit about the age discrepancy. Basically ruins online dating. However, if I go out and get into groups and build social proof, I can bag early 20s, though they are like cats. Very hard to keep and fickle. Some are very relationship hungry in my experience. I've run across unicorns- they exist and they demand loyalty (as well they should- smart, attractive, and generally virgins/very low partner count).

The small city also makes spinning plates difficult (you can't hide). If you are older you need social proof to really benefit. Fraternities will suck the hot women away as will group think (you are the outsider). Tinder is a non starter (you'll get filtered out on age settings)- only the dregs. Tons of competition from good looking jocks, doctors, lawyers, professors, and whatnot. The smarter the college, the worse it is. Party schools may be entirely different. I'm a 8-10 on the SMV spectrum though having a full time, stressful, job makes meeting women hard. I don't sleep with sluts as the amount of dick available to them is insane (seriously, it's eye opening)- the college CC ruins these women.

In a big city I'd be slaying good quality pussy- I know this from experience. Here, it's a lot of hard work. Your average BP professional guy is fucked. Grad student girls are usually fucked in the head or very feminist and are ready to recite the 'fight the patriarchy' shit at a drop of the hat. I've learned to bite my tongue. They are too young and brainwashed to know better.

I still go out on a date every week or two but my game is decent. Normal older men don't have a chance really. Their best bet is to find one and go into LTR with them.

argunta · 2014-09-18T04:30:55+00:00

This is why I love this subreddit, the guys here are honest and straightforward about their experiences. I personally never got how all these stories of guys in their late 20s and early 30s bagging hot college girls came from. IMO, it probably has to do with the college being in a big city as opposed to a small town setting but even then I doubt that these guys are fucking hot sorority girls or the hottest girls at a given campus. I mean college is just so cliquish here in the USA and it is so easy to gain the reputation as the campus creep (like some PUAs have) if you daygame there.

deep_anal_thrusts · 2014-09-18T02:44:26+00:00

Marginally better than a lower SMV guy, assuming both have equal ability to give a woman emotion.

Do the story tellers get laid whenever they want to whoever they want? If not, those stories are just that, stories.

Any man can get any woman so long if he gives her a lot of varied quality emotion. It couldn't be any more simple.

Before I hung up my spurs, I wore decades old ripped clothes, let myself go, rarely got haircuts or shaves, and didn't have a job & told every mark that fact.

I would go to the college bars, find the girls I wanted, pump them full of emotion, and the first to jump me won. This one time, I was being especially lazy with my trade. I was giving just enough emotion to keep the night going. Whenever she started to consider leaving, I gave her another fix of emotion. When I care, I'm giving them non-stop emotegasms until they totally slut out. Hard to get a rape charge when a woman starts rubbing your dick in public with a ton of witness.

Even with this girl who I took to my friends' house, she was so ready, that we were all smoking pot, and I told her "let's shotgun" (mouth to mouth style). She takes it upon herself to start frenching me in front of everyone in the dirtiest way she could. Point made.

Emotion is kryptonite. Let that sink in. Look at my older posts for explicit details on technique.

favours_of_the_moon · 2014-09-18T03:30:46+00:00

They are VERY cliquish, do not attempt to enter their world.

Let them come to you. They will want free stuff and status. And will be willing to spread and suck dick for it.

Kdawg1033 · 2014-09-18T12:38:44+00:00

45 year-old in Florida college town here. Average height, great job, in decent shape physically, average looks. I am an acquired taste, meaning I am not classically handsome, but I have a great sense of humor. I find that my results are all over the map. All these guys on here who talk about all this young pussy wanting older guys are talking bullshit, based on my experience. I have never gone to a club and picked up some college girl. I have even gone with a couple of hot women, and at best, the college girls do not even see you. You are virtually invisible to them. They just have far too many options from young dick. The best results I have had, by far, are through introductions from "younger" (25 to 35 yr. old) friends. I have a friend who works at a bank and meets tons of women. He is married, so when he throws a party, he invites the young hotties, and makes introductions for me. This almost always leads to me hooking up with them. Like I said, I am not some Men's Health model, or 6 ft+ tall guy, so your mileage may vary based on those qualities, but my experience is that it is not that easy to get college girls.

Title	How is life like for older guys with a decent SMV if they live in a college town?
Author	argunta
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Date	September 18, 2014 2:03 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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