A big part of changing yourself to a man of great success in every field is to first identify who that man is. You have to think and write about these things so you know what direction you should take. I am in that process and I wonder how many people here did the same and if you have any tips regarding that. Should I write about the perfect, ideal version of myself that I should strive to become or should it be more grounded, I guess focused more in the realm of short-term accomplishments?