This is going to be a non-traditional FR in the sense that it doesnt contain any new girls that i havent hooked in before, doesnt involve much in the way of seduction, and frankly its mostly an example of how ive fucked up, and had to perform damage control but it seems such an unusual and fucked up situation that it warrants RP examination since i suspect a lot of principles are at play, in slightly complex interactions.

[Background]

28, M, 6'2, 240lbs, weight lifters frame but still podgy from my 100lb weight loss. In an LTR with a 4 who justifies her continued status as LTR in ways that are non-sexual. Its by and large a dead-bedroom, it used to be mostly her that was holding it up. Now she'll fuck on demand i just dont particularly want to because shes let herself go so far. I spin plates to supplement my LTR. Many in RP may disagree with this, but that isnt the point of the FR.

At the beginning of this story i was spinning 2 plates. Lets call them Alice (HB 6 with extreme sexual skills) and Sarah (HB 6.5, fairly vanilla but very keen). Sarah knew the situation, was happy to be a total side plate and to offer exclusivity with it so long as she got seen at least once a week. Alice did not know the situation, but knew she was only a side plate, and knew i slept with other people.

Both plates were nominally exclusive to me. I never truly sought to test this exclusivity or make certain that they were because frankly i dont care THAT much, i just wanted them to hide it if they were going to do it. Alice however, took that to mean she should forward me everything she gets sent by other guys trying to fuck her.In her words that was "Honesty". Im fully aware its a power play, and remain aloof, sometimes even throwing in a bit of agree and amplify.

[The incident]

Alice, who i had been maintaining a STRONGLY dominance themed FWB situation with, found out the full story about my LTR situation, and went thermonuclear. Much shouting, much abuse, much threats to tell her everything.

As it turned out, in a way, she already had told her everything. She sent her a message on social media before she even had the discussion with me. But i didnt find this out till a little bit later. As it turns out she had regretted sending the message, and presumably hoped that by entering into negotiations and telling me it was there, that i would have the capability to intercept it and give her another option.

[The aftermath]

Negotiations went on for hours. Attempting to maintain any form of aloofness or RP principles at this point was worthless, she held all the cards and knew it. Ultimately she already had enough to bury me, and had proven she had the capability to deliver it. I was able to intercept her communications before the payload was delivered, but the threat was very real.

She set out her stall very very high. That there was nothing i could do, that she was going to bury me, that i was a scumbag, etc etc.

But very quickly i suspected that her position wasn't as strong as it appeared. She had already fired her nuke, and then had me intercept it. If she genuinely wanted that she could have simply said nothing.

She made me wait 18 hours, until sunday morning before coming to her decision. In exchange for certain concessions, she would not only not reveal what she knew, but she would also return to plate status. The majority of these concessions were in the form of token gifts. Total value less than $200/£130 and since she actually out earns me it aint exactly like she was milking me for financial gain. Flowers, a dinner date. And an end to the exclusivity terms that existed between us.

On sunday night she begged me for sex on no less than 8 occasions.

Her opening position was she wasnt going to sleep with me for a very long time, until i was "Fully forgiven", and that she was going to sleep with her cage fighter friend in the meantime. I remained indifferent.

She then shifted to "Look just shut your smart mouth and come over, i need you" and when i refused, she then said she would get a substitute in.

Then the substitute changed to her sex toys.

Then she said something that made me smile in the depths of my soul

"I fucking hate you"

"Why"

"Because you're a total cunt, you lied to me, you used me, and you dont deserve a second of my time. But i cant think of anything else right now but you pounding the shit out of me, and you have no idea how much i fucking hate you for that"

"Ok"