How to stop filtering yourself in conversations?

TheRedPillMonkey · 2019-02-06T13:01:38+00:00

A big reason for filtering is being afraid of saying something wrong.

Stop being afraid of that. In fact, try to say the wrong, or unpopular thing from time to time intentionally thus facing your fear.

ZeppKfw · 2019-02-06T13:12:29+00:00

When you think about something say it in a jokingly manner. You're still telling the truth but not directly. You will train yourself to say whatever is in your mind one day.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2019-02-06T13:28:59+00:00

So what if someone disagrees? So what if you offend someone, or someone doesn't like you for being you.. Their loss, not yours..

AloofusMaximus · 2019-02-06T14:53:47+00:00

You're entitled to your thoughts and opinions, so put some of them out there (you can use tact, without being taciturn)! Most people aren't going to be too proactive about getting you to talk.

SenorSwole · 2019-02-06T16:34:38+00:00

Quit being afraid of rejection and seek higher self-worth

_thechinaman_ · 2019-02-07T04:35:40+00:00

Yeah the issue isn't "how do I stop filtering? It should be "why am I afraid of saying what is on my mind and being free/masculine?"

Title	How to stop filtering yourself in conversations?
Author	polarizingpotato
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	February 6, 2019 12:42 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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