Hey, so I matched with this girl on Bumble about 2 weeks ago. We had a great first date that lasted 12 hours, and then we saw each other 3 days later at her place. We messed around both times, but since I was feeling confident in the trajectory, I didn't try to have sex with her since I thought I'd wait until date 3. Anyways, things started feeling a little bit off after the 2nd date. She wasn't texting the same way, and she just didn't seem as interested. I texted her last Friday asking if she wanted to see me this weekend. She took about 6hrs but eventually said "Yes! Idk if I'll have the time, though. Maybe Sunday night?". I said yes and to let me know. We didn't really talk much that weekend, but Sunday comes around and she says "I'm getting dinner with my parents tonight so I can't, :( sorry".

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I felt completely defeated, and texted back about 3 mins later "No worries, wanna try for this week", which was way too soon. I start feeling overbearing for asking out again too soon, and about an hour later with no response impulsively text, "No pressure, Maybe now isn't a good time for you, maybe you and I could try again down the road. Tomorrow never knows ;)". About 8 hours later or so she says "Thanks (my name), I'm actually thinking now isn't a great time. I really do like you, but I don't want to lead you on or wait for when I'm ready. I'm sorry." This was on Sunday, and I never responded. Aside from a snapchat she sent me and a quick back and forth chat on there, we haven't talked since.

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I know I came off too strong, and I know I got impulsive. I don't think I said anything that was outrightly stupid, though I know I made a lot of mistakes throughout. My point is that I really do think she likes me, but she thinks all I want is a serious relationship.

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Do you guys think there is a good way to try to get her back in a way that says I am okay with taking things casually?

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Thank you!