Woman asked me, in casual conversion, if I was a player... is this a shit test?

mrpthrowa · 2019-02-28T13:30:18+00:00

It was a straight up flirt. A flirty shit test if you will. Being called a player is a compliment.

Whatever snappy response you'll hear from people, it's a question of how you responded to it in a way that doesn't affect your frame. Your response is kinda weird but I can't tell what you demeanour was.

Most important is to appear confident, say something like:

"Yeah, but I don't go after good girls", watch as she qualifies herself. If she tries to do that, it's an instant win into your frame - you just made it hypersexual and made her admit she'd be a "bad girl" for you. Then when you take her home smack her ass as you tell her she's a bad a girl.

"Yeah, but it's hard to get my attention", again...

"Nooo, I'm the most good boy there ever was" (obviously with a shitgrin), watch as she gives a flirty raised eyebrow "Riiiiiight" response.

"Player??! I'm the damn coach"

"Well, girls keep throwing themselves at me"

"Yeah, it's a hard life let me tell you" with a grin

"Nah, I'm a virgin" (don't say this if there is a hint you actually are!)

amwfhunter · 2019-02-28T13:40:07+00:00

Doesnt even matter. When a chick is in an ltr I pay them no mind. I might have fun with it and be like I dont think your man would appreciate you volunteering to be the field to find out.

Or there's only one way to find out and your man wont appreciate it. Then she will laugh and come back with something like you wish or whatever. Then u just ignore her.

Kpwn88 · 2019-02-28T15:19:02+00:00

"Heavy is the crown" 😔

Hyper_Sonik · 2019-02-28T18:23:51+00:00

No that was a stupid "I don't know what to say but I'll say this" type of response. When in doubt, less is more. "left wing for the Toronto maple leafs, NHL 2019, how about you? What do you play?" "Best at playing go fish!" "I played with yer mom"

chazthundergut · 2019-02-28T22:46:35+00:00

Girls in LTR love getting free attention and validation. Especially from guys they aren't fucking.

Tell her more about how awesome she is

MisterMarbles1988 · 2019-03-01T02:06:19+00:00

"its complicated"

"it depends on your definition of 'player'"

rugged79 · 2019-03-01T03:03:13+00:00

Rap quote option: "I'm not a player I just fuck a lot." - Big Punisher

Cocky option: "I don't think I'm a player, but the thousands of women in my fanclub say that I am."

Distress signal option: "Yeah. I'm a Bachelor in need of Captain SaveaBro. Will you accept my rose?"

Patriot missile option: "If your dad wasn't a player, you wouldn't be standing here now."

Nuclear option: "I don't chase bitches, bitches chase me."

Nuclear launch codes option: "Who let you out the cage, Little Shop of Horrors?"

Title	Woman asked me, in casual conversion, if I was a player... is this a shit test?
Author	ios-pro77
Upvotes	5
Comments	15
Date	February 28, 2019 1:20 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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