How do you deal with an ex reaching out to you after you broke up with her a few months ago?

rugged79 · 2019-02-27T01:39:36+00:00

You got other plates? She'll probably treat you worse than all of them.

You need a titanium frame to plate an ex well. Doesn't sound like you have one.

Good luck regardless of what you choose bro.

FereallyRed · 2019-02-27T01:45:43+00:00

Never plate an ex unless you have ZERO feelings about them.

A few months? FuCK NO.

Morpheus_TNTB · 2019-02-27T01:45:58+00:00

You hoping the trash can will taste better after a few months of fermenting?

barn3r · 2019-02-27T01:26:56+00:00

Plate at most. If you feel you’re getting oneitis cut it off

xNinja36 · 2019-02-27T01:43:36+00:00

Why do you guys want to get with exes? Move the fuck on.

HurricaneHugues · 2019-02-27T02:22:57+00:00

The same way you deal with a guy coming up to you trying to sell you a bridge in a Brooklyn at a discount.

RedSkeller · 2019-02-27T04:10:22+00:00

Let me guess, she came back around after the 3 month mark? Had no enthusiasm to catch you up on that space of time and tried to jump back into the old ways as fast as possible?

She fucked other dudes, way more than she’ll ever willingly admit. It’s like buying the same car you used to own with a shit ton more miles on it. If you’re going to plate her you need to have zero attachment and treat her like a pile of shit, if you can’t do both, then you can’t handle it. She’ll be gone faster than she came back around otherwise.

johnnynix18 · 2019-02-27T05:10:36+00:00

Ignore her and move on. Unless you like eating scraps out of the garbage.

0io- · 2019-02-27T05:44:35+00:00

Depending on why you broke up with her, just tell her that you've been really busy lately and aren't looking for anything serious, but if she wants to hook up for old time's sake, that's cool. There are crazy girls who are not that much fun to hang out with but who are great in bed. If she's one of those, take the free sex. I had one artist gf/plate I really like who is into political activism (totally different politics from me but she's sincere about saving the world.) Lots of fun to have sex with, not very much fun to go to dinner with or do anything involving her friends. Booty call.

In general, other girls who you hook up with are going to have had sex with a lot of guys too so I wouldn't worry that she's been with other dudes. If her N count was some big number, and now she's been fucking other guys for three months, her N count is still some big number. Wear condoms.

imtheoneimmortal · 2019-02-27T08:13:40+00:00

the RP way is do what's best for you

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-02-27T11:16:29+00:00

Tell her it's done. It'll be all fucked up. Create new options.

NeverLace · 2019-02-27T11:34:32+00:00

I feel like your time and effort is better put to use looking for new girls rather than bringing your ex back.

maljo24 · 2019-02-27T11:35:32+00:00

You know what you want from her. Go for it.

Sad_Sleeper · 2019-02-27T15:52:10+00:00

Ignore her, you are better without her.

My Ex fucked me over pretty badly. Guess who called for the birthday. Yeah she has moved on with her best male friend, but i don't care. I am way better without her.

I have blocked her from everywhere. I mean every place possible.

MattyAnon · 2019-02-27T17:51:54+00:00

What is the red pill way of dealing with an ex you broke up with a few months ago? Is plating even an option for you?

Depends on her behaviour in the relationship and breakup.... but sure, it might be an option. Keep it casual, don't agree to repeated future meetups, DO NOT VALIDATE HER.

Title	How do you deal with an ex reaching out to you after you broke up with her a few months ago?
Author	divine_pizza
Upvotes	6
Comments	16
Date	February 27, 2019 1:26 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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