Hey, I´ve been having somewhat of a problem that comes and goes, and I haven´t found any specific topics that speak about this directly, so this post will also serve as a reference for future TRPers.

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I´ve been in an LTR for some time, and I´ve always been the alpha of the relationship, so no problems on that part. I´m not new at all to the pill. She comes from a conservative and strong family, introverted, submissive, etc. Hasn´t given me any problems in the last few years, since she knows I´ll drop her instantly is she does. I have great natural dread game due to my lifestyle, and I never need to say anything about any women to let her know I have possibilities (That´s how dread is best done in an LTR), shes always slightly anxious when I enter new scenarios.

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Now comes the problem. This has happened a few times already during the relationship, she will enter phases of dread game that will last weeks. She will tell me about beta orbiters, "perverts" that tried speaking to her in bars (though she goes out 2-3 times per year), etc. You know the drill.

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I usually just laugh it off, maybe I´ll even analyze how incompetent the beta orbiter is, because I get a kick out of it, but I´m kind of bored of having to intake these waves of shit tests. Why even bother having a bitch as an LTR if I have to pass more shit tests than if I were spinning plates?

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So to my question. How should I keep reacting to this shit? I´m 90% sure I´m doing it right, so my first instinct is to reevaluate if the LTR is something I want at this point. Yet I´m not completely sure if I should just tell her to fuck off if she ever speaks to me about guys flirting with her. In my mind that would mean to lose frame. I´ve never posted on TRP, but in this case an outside opinion from someone with more experience would be gold.

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