What exactly is the problem here?

ChuckCutty · 2014-10-02T15:55:22+00:00

You might get a better response in /r/askTRP next time, but I'll give it a go.

Personally I think if it's your final semester you should focus on finishing school and not worry that these girls are ignoring you. If they don't want to talk to you then don't talk to them. Keep all communication related to your group work and that's it. Don't play into there frame by trying to figure out why they are giving you the cold shoulder. Demonstrate a high SMV by not caring about the opinion of some fat chick.

tombreck2 · 2014-10-02T15:51:26+00:00

If you don't bring value to others then they aren't going to be interested in giving you their attention.

I would recommend 'How to win friends and influence people'

TDCRedPill · 2014-10-02T18:33:26+00:00

Is this endemic in guys with low SMV btw?

While I have no idea if it's the problem you're experiencing, but to answer the direct question, yes. Low SMV naturally invokes repulsed behavior from people. The difference in how you're treated by random individuals is real, significant, and mind blowingly different to experience.

niczar · 2014-10-02T15:56:18+00:00

the girls give me the cold shoulder,

I've had anger problems

Could it be that you're imagining things? Have you consulted with a psychiatrist? Sounds like you could have a personality disorder or something.

mordanus · 2014-10-02T15:52:38+00:00

Not enough information. Do you have any previous history with any of the girls in that group? What class is it? Have you been publicly shamed in the class yet, such as being called out by the teacher or insulted by someone? Not enough info.

[deleted] · 2014-10-02T16:09:15+00:00

I don't have to put up with girls looking at me as if I'm lower than dirt.

Well, you should learn how to put up with it.

95% of girls will act like you are invisible, that's not a bad thing by itself, that just their modus operendi. If they actually start giving you shit and start being socially hostile, thats when you have a problem.

So far there is no problem here, just be stoic about it and go your own path.

RedPillSafe · 2014-10-02T16:11:03+00:00

Dive into the Red Pill and start to recognize what it's going to take to improve yourself over the long run.

This place doesn't attempt to solve short term issues.

Your goal here is to change yourself (the opposite of "be yourself") so that you are strong enough for whatever life throws at you.

Otherwise we are just acting like your Mother.

WillClickOnAnything · 2014-10-02T21:25:18+00:00

I think you need to take yourself less seriously. You're young. Simmer down, the anger issues will only hold you back, or worse...

QQ_L2P · 2014-10-03T02:32:13+00:00

Not enough info to make any assertions on your situation, but really, your focus should be work. As long as they're attitude is not getting in the way of the work being completed it doesn't really matter what they think or do.

If there is a component where you're graded on how well you incorporate in the group and you are going to be with the same people in the group for the rest of the semester, enforcing RP with low SMV will be detrimental to your grade (how much depends on how much group cooperation is weighted). Go a little purple, work on the stuff, if they look like they need help then help them, but don't do their work for them.

If they ask why you're helping tell them it's because you want the best grade possible for group work.

However, if it's different people every time then again, zone into the work, get it done then get out. I will add this however, acting out aggression is the same as losing frame, you are becoming emotional. If you feel this coming on, take a deep breath and step back. Nobody in life respects a guy who loses their temper. Anger is a justified reaction, but how you channel that anger determines whether you are a beta bitch or a dude who has his shit together.

Title	What exactly is the problem here?
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Date	October 2, 2014 3:43 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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