I slipped up recently verbalising a boundary to my ltr. Considering I didn’t do a good job of setting them from the start I’m not sure how one would reinforce them.

It sounded like a threat from me, though I think it was necessary as she didn’t understand that what she was doing was tiptoeing near a boundary of mine.

Likely going to hard next because it’s more hassle than it’s worth.

So, my question: how do you guys set your boundaries? Apart from mentioning your preferences in conversation etc. What are some ways you ensure she knows where not to step? Think of things you consider hard next-worthy behaviour - what would you do to make them known?

Thanks fellas