Been talking to this girl I met on dating site for a while now. Like 2-3 weeks to be exact. We seem to click and she has told me multiple times that she really liked me. She wanted me to come visit her before, especially when she was very “hot”. Anyways, it was a long drive and I didn’t want to... cold feet??. I started catching feelings through text cause I’m a beta nerd (not really a nerd as I lead my group of nerdy friends lol). Anyways, one positive of the thing was that I’m hitting the gym every day and stopped jerking as much.

But, what I do about this girl? She’s 21 and I’m 26ish. She’s still in college and seems to be more busy now. When I tried to chill with her today, actually drive down to her. She said she’d be busy running errands. I don’t expect a girl to drop everything for me yet but I was hoping for a better response. I told her “I see how it is” and she basically said sorry she sucked.

You can look through my old post got some more info on this girl.

So I hard next? Soft next? What’s the difference? I didn’t see it on side bar.

How can I use this failure to better myself?

Thanks!