We are both 23. I got the talk last night, now we've both gone to work and will see each other again tonight.

She's my only plate/relationship. I did what TRP suggests and did not go LTR, even though it maybe would be the best thing for me right now because she is great and I know that my peak pussy slaying days are yet to come.

I have no real reason not to go LTR with this girl except that I want to spin plates in the future.

I also fear that while committed i would have to miss opportunities to upgrade. I want my freedom if my dream girl appears in front of me.

She is all green flags and its a really convenient relationship for now.

I am ok with having a girlfriend but i dont want it to last forever. She knows this now and Im not sure how to give commitment a timeline.

I said I wanted to just remain an unlabeled relationship but she took this as personal rejection and got sad.

If we make it official i have to break her heart one day, instead of soft nexting when the time is right. She also told me that polyamory will not work for her.

What can i do from here?