Girls say I’m high maintenance, how do I overcome this perception without turning into a slob?

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-04-02T02:42:10+00:00

You're not an ape. Congrats.

8380atgmaildotcom · 2019-04-02T03:34:03+00:00

Don't listen to what they say watch what they do

BigFeetBigDick · 2019-04-02T02:48:32+00:00

The other guys saying it’s a good thing but I disagree. You don’t wanna over-groom yourself and look like you spend 3 hours every day styling your hair in the morning. Maybe you don’t look like that, but if you do, just go easier on it but don’t totally give it up.

As a kid, I used to brush my teeth like 5 times a day, but then I discovered that it’s wayyy too much and harmful for the enamel health, and that less, about 2, is the optimal amount. That is a lot like appearance and attraction, you don’t want to overdo it because it can be counter-productive.

SelfUnmadeMan · 2019-04-02T02:42:11+00:00

WTF does having good hygiene and style have to do with being "high maintenence?"

Also, no woman is turned off by these things. You need to learn to recognize a shit test when you see one.

asorals · 2019-04-02T02:57:48+00:00

Taking care of yourself is good obviously. I'd respond playfully to it saying "it isn't being this sexy" and smile.

Bruchibre · 2019-04-02T03:18:07+00:00

Are you successful with scoring girls besides that? Because that's what matters. Actions not words. I suspect spending 10 hours a day looking after your skin and hair isn't super manly to them though.

[deleted] · 2019-04-02T04:25:07+00:00

If you're doing all these things for women and not yourself, you are a faggot.

Take care of yourself because you want too, not to attract women you fucking simp.

You sound very insecure and care too much what people think.

bigboxguy · 2019-04-02T08:54:50+00:00

I shower twice a day and I spend 5 mins getting ready in the morning and for bed and 20 mins to eat

FiftyWaysOfRape · 2019-04-02T02:56:15+00:00

Is taking care of yourself really a bad thing? Cause girls seem really turned off by it.

No, it’s a shit test, their jealousy strikes. They don’t want anyone who is prettier than them let alone a male, crap bucket mentality. Keep doing what you doing.

Title	Girls say I’m high maintenance, how do I overcome this perception without turning into a slob?
Author	SwoleStoner
Upvotes	0
Comments	13
Date	April 2, 2019 2:32 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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