Hey guys, my girlfriend of 6 months has recently been acting distant (again). She usually always texts me or wants to hang out and is very communicative.

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Last month, she did this twice within a week of each other where she was "mad" at me and didn't contact me and was cold for days. I have grown a lot in trp and learned a lot from my beta days, and did not respond or reach out with the "what are we?" or "what's going on?" cuckish attempts to chase her. I responding by also being distant and doing my own thing/continuing on with my own life.

She eventually reached out to me and told me what was wrong. Both times, I did nothing wrong and basically told her that and if she has a problem with my habits or routines then that's too bad. The first time it was "you don't text me enough or reach out to me" to which I said I don't text a lot and that's how I am. I told her this when we first started dating too. This is the third time in less than 2 months that she has done this. I haven't found out what it is this time, and don't plan on asking or confronting her about it - like formerly needy me did in past relationships.

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She is always very affectionate when we're together, and she loves my dick. We hung out this past weekend one day and everything seemed fine. I always make sure to

- Never hang out with her too much

- Make decisions and plans and not be indecisive

- Lead her in sex and activities

- Stand my ground on issues

- Rock the boat and not back down on my personal beliefs

- Not hesitate to make offensive jokes. She's politically correct and so-on, and I never conform to that

- Most importantly, do stuff independently and with my own friends, workout on my own/with bros, etc. on a consistent basis

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At this point, I'm considering just ending it and moving on. I'm sick of dealing with this and don't know what the problem is. I am tired of being expected to cater to non-existent problems and coddle her. I was thinking of starting a soft next and just straight up nexting her if need be.