I exchanged numbers with this girl 2 weeks ago at a bar. I kinda forgot about her until she reached out earlier this week to make plans. We met up for drinks last night. Date went really well, had great conversation. She kept buying us drinks and before I knew it I was plastered.

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We walked back to her place and immediately started fooling around. Unfortunately my dick did not want to cooperate. Between being shitty drunk and the condom it was not gonna happen (I'm fairly young and this has never happened to me) . We kept messing around and I got her off, but afterward she kept trying to get me to fuck her (asking verbally, grinding on me, sucking my dick etc). It was a roller coaster; she would get me worked up, time taken to put condom on, boner died, repeat. Eventually I just told her plainly that tonight was not the night. She drove me back to my car this morning, everything seemed fine.

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How should I proceed? Should I call out the situation and try and make light of it? Should I just wait and try and make plans another time as if nothing happened like I would normally? Or should I just abandon all hope and accept that I fucked it up?

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TL;DR - Had a good date. Dick didn't work. What next?

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