I have diligently been working on my frame, game and removing my needy tendencies. One thing I have always done well is be a dick to her and get her laughing. My biggest problem was that I would get her bitchy, but didn’t know how to de-escalate and get her laughing again. I would end up getting pissed that she was pissed, and actually took what she said at face value. Yesterday, I texted her to come upstairs and fuck me. She said no, called me a dick and then literally less than an hour later, came up stairs to suck and fuck me. This is the craziest phenomenon and I still can’t believe the red pill works, but it fucking does. Look at what she does and not what she says. I am still choking this truth down daily and moment by moment at times. It is challenging to rewire your brain but it is possible.
In the past I would have meandered around downstairs during the work day to go find my wife. I would try and hug on her and be sweet and cute to her. I would offer compliments, back rubs, kindness and acted like my 7 year old son does. I would almost always get rejected during the day regardless of how attractive I looked externally because the pure smell of my faggotry repulsed her. Women can smell your gay a mile away. They also don’t want another little kid hanging all over them being needy as fuck. I thought “being attractive” only meant dressing nice, having a nice body, well groomed etc. Conventionally speaking, I was attractive as I could get but I was still getting rejected. I couldn’t figure it out and it really pissed me off. So I did what most of us did, I complained to her and whined like a little faggot and she dried up even more.
On Thursday I had a really solid day of work and wife was very well behaved. I went out and bought a nice bottle of wine and some of her favorite beers from a local brewery for her good behavior. In the past, that would have indicated I “needed” sex and was planning to fuck her that night. Instead, I planned to go out with a friend and hit up some bars. I would have gotten laid if I stayed home but I wanted to run an experiment to gain some more frame and power. I know for certain this fucked with her head because it was unexpected. We didn’t fight that day and I was very appreciative of all of her hard work with the kids. She is a SAHM and was very bubbly and fun that day, so I specifically told her I was rewarding her good behavior by getting her treats. It wasn’t a covert contract for sex, but a real offering of a gift for her good behavior.
Friday rolls around and I know for certain she is going to be horny as fuck from the lack of sex the night before. I start gaming her first thing in the morning. Employing push pull was the tactic my marriage was missing and it is incredibly effective. Historically, I would pull her into me and then refuse to let go and push her away. This resulted in her feeling my neediness and getting turned off. When you pull a woman in, it will overwhelm her and you have to pay attention to her actions so you can push her away before she pushes you.
I walked over to her in the morning and appeared to be giving her a hug, but I just opened the fridge instead. A few minutes later I was going upstairs and gave her a hug and a paternal kiss on the forehead. The whole morning was me just working and being aloof and busy. Later that day I needed to go drop off the rental and get my car back from the dealer. When I left, she asked me for a hug and I gave her a hug and a shitty little peck on the lips. When I walked away, she had this little girly smirk on and said she was looking for a “real” kiss. I went back over to her and shoved her against the wall and made out with her. She giggled and squealed like my 5 year old does. Ass slap, walk out the door.
When I was out, she called to ask me how to make our sons lunch. I sometimes like to get creative when I cook. This really pisses her off because they request certain things “daddy style” and she doesn’t know how to replicate it. When she called I told her “Tell our son that he will have to have it the normal way because I am not home and mom is a shitty cook.” She called me a dick and laughed her ass off. You could have drown a toddler in her panties at this point.
We had dinner plans with our friends that night and the whole family was excited to get out. Around 3:00 is when I started texting her again.
Me: I don’t think I can go out to our friends tonight.
Me: My balls are full of cum. I could use an assistant. If you are busy, send Stacy up. (It’s the name I gave her when she gets slutted up and wears a weave or fake bangs. I tell her she is my girlfriend / plate. It leads to some fun nights.)
Her: Fucking Jerk! I am busy, not right now.
Her: I thought it was serious also my mom is here.
Within the hour she had her mouth wrapped around my cock and my cum sprayed all over her. Her mom was still there and my kids were downstairs. Both “reasons” are just shit tests which can be overlooked because alphas get exceptions.