Is a past ONS or two always a immediate dasqualification for a LTR/marriage or are there cases where it‘s not?

jrterry1969 · 2019-04-16T11:51:51+00:00

So you want a girl who has never had a ONS?

Good luck with that. That's going to severely limit your choices.

Bruchibre · 2019-04-16T09:22:02+00:00

I think 1 or 2 ONS for the sake of it is not immediate disqualification but some kind of warning. I would still consider LTR.

Think that all girl can have hundreds of ONS anytime so she got curious, she tried, she didn't like it, didn't do it again, fair enough.

Rp997 · 2019-04-16T09:10:54+00:00

“couple of times”

FixYourselfFirst · 2019-04-16T12:36:37+00:00

Not a big deal. Nearly every girl has had a ONS at some point. You are only disqualifying the ones that are not lying to you about it. AWALT.

maljo24 · 2019-04-16T09:56:18+00:00

Ignore the N count.

Vouch33r · 2019-04-16T09:38:09+00:00

I don't tolerate degeneracy so I'd disqualify such person immediately. Having said that, nowadays it's hard to find people who didn't do it at least once.

MisterRoid · 2019-04-16T16:09:53+00:00

So if a girl has been fucked by 200 guys but all of them fucked her at least 10 times, that's fine because she didn't have any one night stands? Just looking at one night stands as an indicator of sluttiness is flawed.

alleyteris · 2019-04-16T11:59:46+00:00

1) all women i ever hear , claim they where in bad relationships, something statisticaly impossible

2) women lie about N count and ONS in order to not be slut shamed by you

3) for me ONS are huge redflags but i dunno maybe its regional ( im in Europe)

McVaghunter · 2019-04-16T11:25:07+00:00

LTR/marriage are disqualified by the fact that AWALT.

And this is the wrong sub to ask about the n-count, most people here believe that girls are innocent with low n-counts. Truth is, all girls do the "a couple of times" after a break up or when they feel undesired by their bfs; by fucking a couple of hot guys they regain confidence and it levels up their self esteem. It's normal, even men do it, except it's easier for the average girl to get laid compared to the average guy. But don't tell this to TRP, they'll get pissed.

civilizedfrog · 2019-04-16T11:35:35+00:00

It is a redflag. You don't want your ltr to be part of degenerate behaviour. Don't be shocked when she tells you one day that she wants to "find" herself.

Recognizing redflags and making appropriate decisions is for your own safety.

FereallyRed · 2019-04-16T12:47:56+00:00

How many angels dance on the head of a pin?

ONS count is likewise an unknowable number above n=1 if you were a ONS.

Use other vetting methods rather than n = count.

P.S. one night stands are not "degenerate behavior"

That's your morals talking for you.

Think about why you think that.

independent_rooster · 2019-04-16T14:47:35+00:00

yes. absolutely. you don't want someone who's easily consolable consuming new dick

Don_Draper27 · 2019-04-16T23:09:01+00:00

Are there any red flags? Look out for red flags.

Personally for me, women who have been open about ONS or casual hookups are overall trashy and sticking my dick in them is very questionable, let alone committing to an exclusive relationship.

wobbleelbbow · 2019-04-16T14:05:08+00:00

It depends

NobodyP1 · 2019-04-16T15:18:39+00:00

Maybe you didn’t fuck her good enough.

Title	Is a past ONS or two always a immediate dasqualification for a LTR/marriage or are there cases where it‘s not?
Author	throwaway19336
Upvotes	9
Comments	27
Date	April 16, 2019 8:57 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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