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What is your idea of an ideal woman?

Rienuaa

October 8, 2014
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Title What is your idea of an ideal woman?
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Rienuaa

Upvotes 10
Comments 28
Date October 8, 2014 4:30 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 22 points23 points24 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

The first thing that you should learn from The Red Pill is that your traditional notions about an "ideal woman" are all wrong. There are no unicorns.

It's better to think of "ideal" as "ideal for Red Pill transformation". That is to say, women who are ready and willing to accept your leadership. With that said, the list is pretty simple:

1) She has a healthy appreciation for gender roles. She's a feminine girl, she likes masculine men, and she acknowledges this fact without shame.

2) She hasn't been indoctrinated by feminist nonsense. That means she's not fixated on her personal duty to the impersonal Female Collective. Instead, she takes the feelings and needs of men into account as well.

3) She is not psychologically damaged. Victims of abuse often gravitate towards doctrines like feminism out of a need for security and control through micromanaging other people's lives. An ideal girl has no inherent distrust for men or underlying insecurities which inform her biases and influence her actions.

That's about as ideal as a woman can get. The key point here is that Red Pill women are not born. They are made. By you.

[–]throwaway-aa2 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I disagree with you. It's not saying that a unicorn exists. It's saying you have specific preferences, not saying you expect a perfect women.

I agree with your 3 points, an ideal woman must have this. But for me, I can name some other things.

  1. Submissive (a girl can have healthy appreciation for gender roles but not be totally submissive).
  2. She cooks good (and often)
  3. She is willing to do whatever I want in bed (I'm a little crazy)
  4. She likes pain (spanked, slapped)
  5. Not too skinny, not too big, but the right amount of thickness
  6. Works out (flat stomach is really sexy with a thick woman).
  7. Nice big bell shaped breasts (not too big), nice thick but not too fat ass.
  8. Hair that is long, and doesn't require much maintenance (I like to play with hair and if a girls hair requires maintenance, I can't play with it).
  9. Feminine voice / walk
  10. She can dress extremely sexy, but can also dress sporty / tomboyish.
  11. Has the type of schedule where she can make herself available for me whenever I want.
  12. Good tasting mouth (it's true though)
  13. Not whiny / complainy
  14. Can dance, especially move her ass
  15. Will allow recording of sex (I like to look back at them! and it just proves she's submissive)
  16. Has a dirty mind... so I don't ALWAYS have to direct... she can think of her own volition
  17. Can laugh and have fun with her.
  18. Not black (99% of the time masculine, or can't play with the hair)
  19. Tall (more woman, don't have to slouch or look down to talk to her)

I'm sure a good girl could learn how to do a lot of this... but some girls move better than others... some girls bodies are better than others...

[–]lillojohn 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This. The opportunity in this is you. You have to be Alpha and beta balanced enough. You also need to have your shit together.

[–]Mc_mcdawg0 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

If you had your shit together you would not be in this sub.

[–]1TrueScotsman 8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My wife minus the cheating.

[–]my-redpillthrowaway 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

  • Be intelligent
  • Have a hobby which is productive (definitely not partying)
  • Willing to try new things in bed
  • Chooses family over career. Even better: have a job, not a career
  • Don't be obese. Don't be anorexic.
  • Helps people.
  • Introverted. Extroverted women are more likely to ride the CC.
  • knows how to cook
  • Doesn't take advantage of her beta orbiters
  • Slutty friends are a big no-no

[–]razor5151 13 points14 points15 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

1-Isn't a whore.

2-Fun to be around.

3-Is not ugly.

4-Doesn't think that homemaking is disrespectful and makes her less of a woman.

That's my order of preference, in descending order from the top. I think most people would agree with me, even though their order may vary.

[–]markasstrick123 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Just meet the first and I'll go out of my way for her

[–]Ulquiorra_Schiffer 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't know. If she's a cunt, even if she isn't a whore, I'm not going to want to be around her at all. I think that's pretty important, and I categorize it with Fun To Be Around.

[–]2RedPillSafe 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

RPW is the closest you will get.

She needs to realize her "nature" that women live in an emotional hamster wheel. If she realizes this in herself then she becomes capable of realizing that a man can serve as her rock grounding her to the real world.

Once this honesty about natures truth exists things will work the best.

Most women are spinning in a world disconnected from reality which is why we are all in such bad shape. Feminism encourages this disconnection and makes it harder for a woman to ever touch the ground. Many women today will live their entire lives not knowing themselves. But this is true for beta males as well, to be beta means never knowing truth also.

[–]BedlamStatesman 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

  • Generally intelligent.: Book smarts are a plus.
  • Compassionate and empathic.: I want my woman to be able to tell when I'm in a bad mood, if she can take initiative to alleviating that bad mood, all the better
  • Willing to improve self.: I'm not saying she has to go to the gym 3 days out of the week, but if she puts on 20 lbs, I want her to realize that's not healthy, and be willing to burn it off.
  • Fiscally Frugal: AKA Don't go out to the mall every weekend and blow our Savings account on flashy and/or gaudy accessories.

Obviously, as you can see, there are not many women in the US that fit this criteria...at least not from my experience.

And just because I feel like adding it, some visual qualifiers of what I find most attractive.

  • Petite body frame
  • C-cups
  • Athletic legs
  • Glasses (It's an endearment thing. A girl confident about herself enough to wear glasses, as opposed to contacts, is sexy, imo)

[–]anonlymouse 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Attractive anti-feminist.

Beyond that, check lists are stupid.

[–]Watermelon_Salesman 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Bit tits, not fat, tight pussy.

[–]53Pirate 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You won't like those big tits so much after she has a kid or two & gets older. As to "not fat" .... look at her mother & older sisters to get an idea of what you might be in for.

[–]hammock_district 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't think he plans on committing long-term to this woman as evidenced by his solely physical criteria.

[–]MomoUnchained 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She fucks me whenever I want

No needless drama

Doesn't fuck other dudes

Cooks and cleans

Swallows

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

16 years old, beautiful (and preferably blonde), raised with conservative/traditional values, still a virgin, knows how to cook

[–]tindermaster1986 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lzz4QtbTu6M

Jk. HumanSockPuppet nailed it.

[–]Who_Da_Fuck_Cares -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What are you? Five? Who asks these questions anymore? ...fine fine... I'll play along. I don't think an ideal woman exists. Period. We all go through so many changes and so fast we don't even realise it ourselves sometimes. So in this regards, who does not seem "ideal" to me at the moment, may as well be the actual "ideal" one in about 10 years later or so, and/or vice versa. The change can either be from my end, or hers. I think even (happy) marriages also work in this same aspect. But what do I know? I'm not married! What do you care anyway? Go ask someone else these silly questions. DUH!

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[–]WeeDNaMeZe 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

A best friend that wants to suck my dick

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[–]frys180 -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Tall, dominant, witty, and an intellectual equal.

Has an innate desire to take initiative with things. Working with me and not against me. It is beyond stressful having to do everything myself in a relationship. I would never want a completely submissive woman. That would drive me insane. All that goddamn passiveness. No. Just no.

Businesslike when the time is right, yet comforting and nurturing.

I'm not here by myself. And I won't be at 100% all of the time. I want to work together with my woman. Not just feel like I'm doing work with her.

[–]frys180 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol at the downvotes. The echo chamber has spoken!

[–]2RedPillSafe -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I have a 145 IQ there are no women my equal.

(few men as well)

As I see it you should see a woman as like a dance partner.

You clearly lead, but you want her to provide just a hint of resistance.

You never want her leading, or her following "too perfectly", or her being clueless.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wasp waisted. Average face. Long hair.

That is all. Literate is a plus but not required.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

--Horny/Little personal slut

--submissive/wants to please me

--sweet/with just a touch of tart

--is absolutely crazy about me

--no gag reflex

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