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Let's have a discussion on maintaining frame and alpha composure for the less well endowed men on here

Kingkarlo

October 8, 2014
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Title Let's have a discussion on maintaining frame and alpha composure for the less well endowed men on here
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Kingkarlo

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Comments 21
Date October 8, 2014 9:53 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
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[–]Masonjarteadrinker2 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What does help is to stop watching so much porn, I used to think my 6 inch dick was super small but now that I stopped watching it, sometimes I look at my dick and it looks pretty damn big.

Give that shit a shot bro, it might help.

[–]dazerzooz 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You can't let it define you. Realize that your penis size is not known by the women until you're at the point of having sex. Once you've gotten to that point you've already succeeded. If keeping her satisfied is a concern of yours, and it certainly matters to a degree if you want to repeat, then there are other parts of your body you can use to make up for your deficiencies elsewhere.

You can't let your penis size dictate your attitudes outside the bedroom. I know it plays with your mind subconsciously. But you have to realize that a women can only judge you on your indirect and direct game. She doesn't have xray goggles.

[–]reedrichardsstretch1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Exactly, and as much as women are also stimulated visually, a much larger percentage of their sexual reponse is tied to their emotions and feelings. Get her mind running and thus her juices flowing and you'll be more than fine.

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[–]Kingkarlo1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Watch out man, that's a recipe for a false rape charge

[–]atheist_terry_jones 3 points3 points3 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Anyone who doesn't admit to having some insecurity is full of it. There's always a bigger dog.

What you can do is be as confident in who you are as possible and realize that's all you can control.

I have a tiny dick.

It definitely sucked early on when I was consumed by it and didn't have that much experience. It still gets me worried from time to time but as long as I can rock her boat the bitch will treat my dick like a god.

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[–]Do not send modmail to my personal inboxCrazyHorseInvincible[M] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Banned.

[–]Position5hero 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hey man who gives a shit.

If she's seen your dick, you already gonna fuck her.

I got a big ol' dick, and it never helped me with anything in my life at all. Not one single thing. A woman doesn't know how big it is, I don't talk on the street and have women think to themselves 'wow he has a big dick I want that' and by the time she's seen it, who cares anymore.

Learn to love your little guy man, cause it's litterally not only not holding you back at all, it's NOT a benefit to have a big one.

Dick size don't matter except for vanity.

[–]markasstrick123 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Women speak very openly about how they laugh in guys faces for having sub 5 inches. Fuckin brutal

[–]Kingkarlo-1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Yeah they make it harder to respect them everyday

[–]gggkin 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Instead of telling you to "suck it up" like other posters, I'm going to attempt to give you some practical advice here. I'm also open to discussions and other helpful advice.

  1. If you're fat or overweight, lose that belly fat. Loosing belly fat could add 1-2 inches to your penis length.

  2. Watching too much porn could also reduce your fully erected size. I find that 3-4 days of no-fap + working out make my erect penis look fuller and longer. Almost at least half an inch extra. I think it has something to do with blood flow test level.

  3. Having big cock is like having tight vagina. Sure, you would rather have sex with women with tighter vagina but if the girl is good at BJ, have pleasant personality, etc... how tight her vagina is seems less relevant. Try figuring out what make women feels good and secured. Read about light BDSM, The Sex God Method, etc... to make up for it.

If you can make her feel secured and horny in bed she would care less about your cock size.

[–]Azothlike 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't know about you, but sexually, I usually don't even whip it out until after oral/manual things have happened. Usually, after she's already climaxed once. I'm somewhat average myself, at around 6", and I can't imagine anyone turning you down because of size when they're already a wet mess.

My general advice, to control frame, is to go into the situation with a position of authority and expectation, which is how I usually treat it. No still means no, but dragging a girls hips to the edge of the bed after a round of oral/talented-manual usually has too aroused and grateful to laugh at anything.

Sure, you might want to skip the step of "putting her hand on the outline in your pants", and such, but it shouldn't be a mood killer unless it comes up prematurely.

[–]reedrichardsstretch1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Seriously 4 inches is not "very small". Sure, it's smaller than average, but we're not talking 2 inches or a micro dick.

As with many other aspects, if you act normally, then she'll act normally. Be visibly anxious, then she'll act accordingly.

I'm about the same size as you, and no girl has ever reacted negatively, ever. That doesn't mean I haven't had anxiety about it, but that it's unfounded from my own experience.

Sorry it you've had it happen to you.

[–]MrStinky -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why worry about frame when you can actually make your dick bigger?

I have added almost 1.5 inches in length and 1 inch in girth since I started "PE" less than 6 months ago.

And I am just getting started :)

I have used the following products to gain the inches that I have added to my dick.

Start small. Stay consistent. Don't give up.

My routine is currently using the Phallosan for 8-14 hours a day (worn under my clothing at work) after I have done a couple sets with the Malehanger in the morning before work.

I am currently taking a break from the Penomet because I have heard conflicting advice on doing both girth and length work so I am stricly adding length now.

You can check out this super in-depth, FREE, life changing material as it has literally improved my life in spades.

There are also many forums dedicated to growing your dick.

Don't dismiss this as hogwash.

If anybody has any questions, please feel free to PM me

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[–]Masonjarteadrinker2 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I got a 6 inch dick also and it used to look all small but I used to watch porn on the daily. Now I actually don't watch porn at all and sometimes I look at my dick and that fucker looks pretty big.

The mind fucks with us big time. Stop looking at all that porn though and it will make you feel better about yourself after a few months.

[–]Azothlike 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

5.5" is the National average in the US. I can't imagine it's much different elsewhere, unless possibly you're in a black/asian-majority country.

[–]2IVIaskerade 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you're a white American male, 5 and a half is about average.

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