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Shit Test Demeanor

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April 19, 2019
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Look, I’m the king of not recognizing shit tests, and failing them, but when I do, I find my bearing hard to control. When I recognize a shit test for what it is, I genuinely have a hard time holding in laughter or at least a shit-eating grin for most of the encounter. Maybe it’s me being a fresh cherry popped red pill being giddy about a “win” in that department, but does anybody else get this way?


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Title Shit Test Demeanor
Author RP_PO
Upvotes 8
Comments 15
Date 19 April 2019 12:04 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/227002
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/beyc1k/shit_test_demeanor/
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[–]helaughsinhidden10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

CONTEXT

NEO: What are you telling me..... that I can dodge bullets?

Morpheus: No Neo, I am trying to tell you that when you're ready..... you won't have to.

LESSON

Keep lifting, keep owning your shit, keep improving, keep unplugging from the blue pill, keep up your hobbies, keep up your social life, talk to people including women, and generally keep being a high value man. When a self aware, high value man gets a shit test from his woman, it should be laughable. Like Neo doing his blurry bullet dodging stuff in the Matrix, it's effortlessly handled as if it was a joke.

[–]BurnedRemains5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Everytime anyone references this my autism kicks in and I have to watch and laugh hysterically at this video. Thanks.

https://youtu.be/nvzQCb_iQnk

[–]helaughsinhidden2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol, that reminds me of all the r/askmrp comments

[–]RP_PO[S] 6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Most recently it was her bitching about me putting multiple events for me on the calendar: camping, bro trip, golfing. Bitched about not spending time with her and about not going on a girl day date with her friend. I laughed and encouraged her to do that, but that nobody would plan her day date for her and her friend. She feverishly and childishly started texting her friend. Said I was being a dick, but laughed and smiled at all the AA/AM I was using.

Old me would have DEER’d and turned the thing into pissed off wife syndrome, and maybe even cancelled one of the trips like a bitch boi. Glad to see a glimmer of my own frame coming through. Gotta keep trucking.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm about to leave on a bro trip with my friends from preschool. Didn't ask permission and told my friends to not invite the wives so I wouldn't need to invite mine. We do plenty of shit on our own when she is behaving and I do plenty of shit on my own. I used to feel guilty and never did anything for myself except for every few years I would have a nervous breakdown almost and leave to go be alone hiking for a few days. It was a good reset and I plan to do them more often for mental sanity checks and to spend time on my self. We need these types of things as men.

[–]RP_PO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

For sure. Doing things for ourselves, and apart from our wives is crazy important. I think it’s a large component of building/strengthening our frame.

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

You win nothing. You want to win? Show me a pick of some lower abdominals.

[–]hack3geRed Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

5&6 or 7&8? Fuck all of you guys who are genetically gifted with 8 packs - that is all.

[–]RP_PO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lower abs pending. I will send you traps and lats to tide you over until my cut is done mid/late May.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

In the beginning , yes.

It’s like seeing checkmate on the long diagonal - it’s set up perfectly.

Congratulations, you can see the code in the matrix now. Don’t fuck it up.

[–]jerrymcguiver2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I too find them funny. My wife hates when i don't take her seriously when she's doing it. Ends up saying how I never take her serious and how I'm a pathetic little selfish bitch. Then I aa and go lift.

[–]Dialerstring7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

“Pathetic little selfish bitch” They will attack your masculinity when there is nothing else to attack.

[–]Luck-670 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Depending on the context and situation of the shit test.....laughter certainly can be an excellent response.

Amused mastery ....is the overall mindset in any ST incident.

EDIT: I agree with the poster that you win nothing. You’re dealing with a child and the first step there is have your own shit together.

[–]RP_PO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Very true. I dont count it as a win when I get my kids to bed on time or handle a tantrum. It’s just a part of my life to handle these things. I need to view these interactions with my wife this way as well.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It’s repitition to build a well fueled, well oiled, stoic driven response while remaining in your frame.

You current response is operating In your frame, yet moving in and out of hers

When you get to a good solid shit test, response state, embrace STFU a little more and stoically remove your presence in the conversation, yet remain in her physical locality . Basic dread level, michevalen manipulation, defcon level.

STFU is basic, but can be used at all levels

Don’t kid yourself for one moment. Women are master manipulators. And, if you have history of being asleep at the wheel, she is going to buck the fuck out of you at many different levels of shit tests.

God speed .



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