Most Important Thing to Becoming a Lover of Women? Don't Be Bitter.

kanaduhisfruityeh · 2014-09-09T18:23:16+00:00

The easiest way to get over bitterness is to fuck lots of attractive women. Tight young vagina will suck the bitterness right out of you (and other fluids as well LOL).

Agent1407 · 2014-09-09T19:37:10+00:00

Women are great. There is no reason at all to be bitter. They can be fun, a great company, amazing in sex. I really love women.

Also, as everything else in the world, they are impermanent. They will leave you sooner or later. The best case scenario? Death! Of course they are impermanent. So why bother so much? Why think so much about ways to make her stay a little more with you?

In "good" moments and "bad" moments, always keep in mind: This too will pass.

Life is not as serious as the "angry stage" of the red pill looks. Everything is changing all the time. Don't derive your sense of self from the things that you have (money, girls, looks), they will leave you sooner or later. Enjoy things while they are there, honor them when they are gone. Life is good. Enjoy it.

argunta · 2014-09-09T18:40:08+00:00

Chase has high quality material on his site but one must ask how can someone be so happy after all the red pill has shown them.

RealRational · 2014-09-09T21:19:18+00:00

As with every other negative emotion people experience this one stems from expectations. Men, in the modern age, have expectations of what being a "good" member of society means, what a good man behaves like. We were also taught that there is no difference between what's expected of men and women. The Red Pill is the truth, which awakens you to the fact that women have been living by COMPLETELY different rules.

TL:DR If you're angry at women, for being women, it's probably because you're expecting them to behave like men.

[deleted] · 2014-09-09T23:35:12+00:00

The biggest mistake I've found in my thought process has been expecting all women to act like adults.

Most women have their mentality closer to a child rather than an adult. They want a father figure, a stoic alpha who provides and stands firm in the face of crisis. They'll whine and sometimes complain that you don't love them and constantly seek your approval like a child does from a parent.

One of the things I made myself do early on was start viewing women as silly and cute.

That's spot-on. A politically correct way of stating the obvious. They're fucking silly. They can't be trusted with their judgement and they obviously can't be expected to act like an adult. In the nutshell, you can't hate a kid for being stupid, the same applies to a woman.

johnnight · 2014-09-19T11:32:48+00:00

This is the key part:

I'd even go so far as to categorize the progression of belief systems like this:

Naïveté (thinks all the world is good and selfless)

Cynicism (thinks all the world is greedy and selfish)

Zen (understands that some people are selfish, some aren't, and knows how to get to know people and connect to them and how not to be used, and genuinely likes people and appreciate them for who they are)

And it's the same as this:

r/TheRedPill/comments/2dcxs4/the_three_stages_of_the_pill/

p.s. If I was in his shoes, I would be bitter. Fuck Enlightment, there would be revenge.

favours_of_the_moon · 2014-09-09T15:59:34+00:00

These bitches ALL get off on spiteful mindrape.

So don't be bitter. That is to say, don't let them get over on you. Turn the tables.

truchisoft · 2014-09-10T02:21:35+00:00

I know a couple of individuals (both girl and boys) that are bitter about their past, they are bitter at the people that did things to them, bitter at the objectives they could not complete... etc.

Those people get zero traction with the opposite sex, oh, they might date people, but they never "click" with anyone. Any attitude they see on their dates that an ex did, means for them that they are just like the ex, no benefit of doubt at all.

Don't be bitter.

[deleted] · 2014-09-10T03:04:14+00:00

I think the most important sentence in this article is "girls are silly and cute" because it's not just a) true and b) a useful mindset for thinking about all the shit girls put you through and get away with and c) a very, very useful mindset for keeping the right frame around girls. It's d) something a lot of girls will totally get behind, unconsciously as you're getting to know them, and they'll probably agree outright if you get to know them better on good terms and then come right out and say it.

It just sounds right. Girls are silly and cute. I like it.

some12talk2 · 2014-09-09T15:11:13+00:00

"every girl is different"

wtf? give the author a red pill

does this way-too-long article have a point beyond don't be bitter?

Title	Most Important Thing to Becoming a Lover of Women? Don't Be Bitter.
Author	colombia40
Upvotes	18
Comments	12
Date	September 9, 2014 2:51 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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