Guys wife cheats on him, blames him, and wants a divorce. He begs her to come back. She does, and now she is asking detailed questions about his finances.

projectself · 2014-08-19T18:46:35+00:00

they married in college, have a 7 year old. I going to bet they are at the 9 year marriage mark.

I'm also going to bet she read up on divorce laws and saw that at the 10 year marriage mark she gets a much better payoff.

neighborhood_man · 2014-08-19T18:57:08+00:00

She doesn't even respect him enough to be subtle like every other gold digger. He needs to start hiding assets quick - this is an opportunity to play the moron (play a sucker to trap a sucker). Give her answers that make her think she's in a for a very small payout and start changing passwords.

liberaceswig · 2014-08-19T18:08:26+00:00

so godamn pathetic, it's not even worth commenting

exit_sandman · 2014-08-19T19:05:56+00:00

Well, these are situations where I wonder why there aren't a lot more conspicuous untimely accidents taking place.

[deleted] · 2014-08-19T22:34:19+00:00

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Dreamtrain · 2014-08-19T21:32:44+00:00

This just screams divorce rape no matter what pill you advocate for.

johnnight · 2014-08-19T23:24:51+00:00

His longer post from 1 mth ago:

http://redditlog.com/snapshots/935753

they are in year 8
she had postpartum depression, which might be the real problem here, hormone/neurotransmitter instability
she asked for an open marriage. he agreed.
she went on dates with "Tom"
Tom is a good listener and pushes her buttons

this:

I leave with the kids to go to my sister's house for a visit today. Planned months before. Only to find out last night, that she is having Tom pick her up and she'll be with him during that time. She told me.

she is out:

My wife says there is no fixing it, she doesn't love/trust me anymore, she wants more for her sex life and to get away from me.

gaslighting. or simply bullshitting:

she told me this past Sunday that had I not gone through her phone and found out. Had I just left it alone and not talk to her best friends husband. She would have let it play out with Tom and ended it by July 5. And went back to the way things were between us.

She is just not attracted to him emotionally, period. She is just fabricating fake reality reasons, why she is not satisfied with him:

she would get angry with me saying I wasn't helping enough. ... She has battled depression and post par tum, ... More recently her argument has become that I don't pay her any attention. ... She wanted me to do more of the planning and for her take time off.

It goes like this: She is not attracted to him. She does not know why. She is throwing him accusations of neglectful behavior and tests to pass. ("You do not do task X well. Do task X better.") No matter how well he does the task, her emotions do not change, because task X was not the source of the problem. He is failing the test on her emotional level, so now she can say that she has given him the chance and he failed, again.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-08-19T23:33:01+00:00

Dude needs to STOP earning money immediately. Yep, I said it. He should quit his job. When the wife files her child support/vaginamony is based on his income at the time of filing. The judge can and will throw him in jail if he quits his job after filing. Before, meh. He wins. Then after the divorce is finalized he can go back to work. Fuck this bitch. Pure gaslighting.

LifeLibertyProperty · 2014-08-19T19:40:55+00:00

Couldn't he file for divorce because of her cheating, and keep it all because of that? Or do I not know what I'm talking about?

[deleted] · 2014-08-20T02:41:31+00:00

I've said it before. I'm never getting married. Fucking ever.

[deleted] · 2014-08-20T08:14:28+00:00

Man. TRP makes me really see woman in a whole new light ..

boffadeeez · 2014-08-20T09:09:12+00:00

These stories fuckin piss me off

[deleted] · 2014-08-20T01:19:15+00:00

What the fuck is wrong with this guy? What kills me is that people are telling him what she is planning and even giving him a road map on what to do. (get a lawyer and divorce now) Do you thing he is going to listen? What a fucking fool. Yet thanks to TRP, I learned that you can't save someone that doesn't want saving. You can give him pearls of wisdom to the point of drawing him easy to follow along pictures and he will not listen. I guess that is the most frustrating for me to see. He is heading for a serious crash, you're screaming to take your foot off the gas, and he won't listen.

neighborhood_man · 2014-08-19T21:40:07+00:00

Has there ever been a thread on here about how to protect yourself against this?

Pre-marriage considerations

In-marriage considerations

Divorce process considerations.

apackofwankers · 2014-08-19T21:09:24+00:00

information is currency, every single piece of information you give, you should be asking yourself what you gain from that

Title	Guys wife cheats on him, blames him, and wants a divorce. He begs her to come back. She does, and now she is asking detailed questions about his finances.
Author	neighborhood_man
Upvotes	52
Comments	42
Date	August 19, 2014 6:01 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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