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Hypergamy Doesn't Care

TheIslander829
April 26, 2013
12 upvotes
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Title Hypergamy Doesn't Care
Author

TheIslander829
Upvotes 12
Comments 15
Date April 26, 2013 6:43 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1d64uj/hypergamy_doesnt_care/
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Comments

[–]Are_You_A_Real_Man19 points20 points21 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Conversely, hypergamy does care if you act like an aloof asshole with options. It cares very much about that.

[–]1Ill_mumble_that4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. If you can game her hypergamy it will effectively mean you can do anything you want and she'll have to put up with it. Hypergamy gives her no choice in the matter.

Hypergamy is a powerful part of a woman's psyche, and she has little control over it - all of the control lies in the hands of the male. All that matters is whether or not the male knows how to use it. This is the real truth of the red pill.

[–]thecajunone11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Man this really spoke to me. Coming off a four year long relationship where I did help her pay for college and I was her best friend and so forth, in the end nothing we shared mattered. None of it. Because hypergamy doesn't care. Damn. Every time I visit this sub I see something relevant to my life right now, its unreal.

[–]TheIslander829[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just like honey badger.

[–]5F42DE47BC6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is a red pill truth that's probably the easiest for me to grasp.

Women do not have my back. I know this, because they've never had my back. They absolutely refuse to have my back. I'm a beta and I've never even seen the side of women that compels me to give a shit anymore.

They say women are more nurturing and caring. That's bullshit. They're sociopaths. They put up an act until the second it stops being convenient, even temporarily, and move on.

[–]1Ill_mumble_that1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They say women are more nurturing and caring. That's bullshit.

This only applies to their children and maybe their parents. It does not apply to spouses.

[–]imgonnagetthisdone0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Urgh, downvoted. This article is light on content and just aimed to provoke an emotional response from the readers. A woman could easy write a near-identical article called "Polygamy Doesn't Care" and then feminists would be raging about how heartless all men are.

I'm all for intellectual discussions on the social/economic/personal repercussions of female hypergamy, which this is not. Frankly many red-pillers nowadays seem to have an excess of rage towards women as it is (especially considering many red-pillers believe men to be less emotionally-minded than women!) and these articles doesn't help at all. I'd much prefer to read about how to deal with hypergamy in my relationships. More of that, less of this, please.

[–]Are_You_A_Real_Man11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

There is a wealth of information in the manosphere on how to deal with hypergamy.

Some tenets of the red pill are so important that it is worth repeating them ad infinitum until they are drilled into your skull.

For those struggling with fully accepting red pill truths, pieces like these that appeal to the emotions are just as essential as the ones that appeal to reason.

[–]imgonnagetthisdone-5 points-4 points-3 points 13 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

I disagree. A much better way of getting people to accept the truth is by helping them find a way to live with it, rather than shoving all of the negative aspects in their faces. This sort of article is far more likely to make existing red-pillers bitter rather than help blue-pillers find the truth.

I actually find the red pill quite liberating when I figured out how to use it to improve my life, but this sort of article has no optimism in it - just "women suck" (or more precisely "women's instincts suck", but you get my point).

Edit: also, Reddit is a social news site, so downvoting articles I don't want to see is my prerogative. I find the /r/trp chock-a-block full of blue pill examples and "all women suck" articles, which in my mind serve no purpose, so I'm going to continue upvoting only articles I find to be useful.

[–]Are_You_A_Real_Man3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Your voting choices are yours alone to make, my good sir.

I moved past the bitterness stage several months ago, so seeing this article again doesn't inspire the same feelings of resentment that it did then.

[–]imgonnagetthisdone1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Aye, thanks for the acknowledgement. Too many people vote others down just for disagreeing with their opinions, so it's nice you acknowledge my right to be heard!

I wouldn't consider myself to be in a bitter stage either - I never really had one to be honest. But then, I became red-pill by reading Athol Kay's blog, which is pretty optimistic for the most part. I wonder if I would have had a bitter stage if I'd became red-pill after reading "Hypergamy Doesn't Care"...

[–]Are_You_A_Real_Man1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

By the way, one of the mods should take over /r/trp as a forwarding address to this subreddit, since it seems to have been abandoned for many months.

[–]dropit_sphere0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Upvoted for clarity of thought, but for the record, I disagree.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

especially how many redpillers consider themselves less emotionally minded then women.

Shit dude, you're right and I never would have realized.

[–]TheIslander829[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is jut one of a series of posts compiled on Rollo's first year of blogging.

http://therationalmale.com/2012/08/29/year-one/

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