Help me pass comfort test

FixYourselfFirst · 2019-05-07T15:57:45+00:00

"You should worry when I don't want to have sex with you"

MattyAnon · 2019-05-07T16:32:32+00:00

LTR implied i only wanna fuck every time i see her. she’s now “mad” and not replying to me.i don’t want a downward spiral, what do i say

Demote to fuckbuddy.

The "you only want me for sex" gambit is used by women when you are fully committed and when she's losing attraction.

It's a powerplay to get your commitment and resources without being attracted or having sex with you.

Ironically this is only said by women in exclusive relationships. Fuckbuddies don't say this sort of thing, they're genuinely grateful and appreciative of you and sex with you.

This is a major red flag that the relationship is over, and (from your point of view) should be over.

It's time to get out, sorry to say.

Yashugan00 · 2019-05-07T16:28:16+00:00

LTR ?????

When the time comes, remember: She was never yours to begin with, it was just your turn.

Stay stoic.

rayounnes · 2019-05-07T15:55:16+00:00

Do you only want to fuck her everytime you see her ?

ciraze · 2019-05-07T17:32:34+00:00

Do you ever go out on dates with her? You still need to show them (Women) some other value instead of dick all the time, unless you're Mandingo with a 10 inch who makes her orgasm multiple times every single time you have sex, every girl will eventually want more, otherwise, she will feel like she's being used.

At the end of the day we all know that any sort of relationship is basically a trade-off, you trade your time and resources for sex and she trades her pussy (ie, sex) for time and resources from you, if only one side of the deal is being met she will feel like she's being used.

When she says you only use me for sex all she's implying is "spend more time with me". That's all

FixYourselfFirst · 2019-05-07T16:10:11+00:00

How long has this been an LTR? How long did you vet her before LTR?

Talinor09 · 2019-05-07T15:57:27+00:00

I’m not a pua but get her to talk in person and say something along the likes of “baby of course I want to fuck you everytime I see you, I love fucking you” with a slight smirk while proceeding to undress her.

Afterwards take her somewhere nice or fun then try bang her in the car on the way home.

Aptote · 2019-05-07T21:30:57+00:00

change 'only" to "always'

her: 'you only want to fuck me'

you: 'heh, i don't only want to to fuck you, i always want to fuck you because you are sexy and my gf.'

that is your frame. always = yes, only = no

own it.

Title	Help me pass comfort test
Author	Tachankers
Upvotes	10
Comments	33
Date	May 7, 2019 3:49 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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