What exactly is a girls weekend and how do you handle it?

tefllifestyle · 2019-05-10T20:00:31+00:00

Going to party, shaking there ass and potentially get laid with hot.dude, which she will call it just happened or it was just the tip in lol

Sylvester_Sterone · 2019-05-10T21:21:24+00:00

Great article from Rational Male on this situation.

Let her go. Be busy and minimal texting. Make her think about you.

https://therationalmale.com/2012/08/27/girls-night-out/

4604Spartan117 · 2019-05-10T19:55:20+00:00

Also curious

Don_Draper27 · 2019-05-10T20:25:23+00:00

It's vague.

Generally she's going to be going out with a few girls. It might not even be a weekend thing. Could you be a night.

Could be a red flag but you need to find out more details.

RP0986 · 2019-05-10T22:03:49+00:00

A girls weekend usually carries with it all of the cultural symbols you might expect. “Finally, it’s her chance to let her hair down and just have fun, dance a little, drink a little and get high on life”

This usually translates to your girl being hit on constantly. Peer pressured into dancing/interacting with the guy group and depending on her friends and character, encouraged to cheat because “no one else will know”.

Anyone who’s run game in tourist hotspots has met many of these types. Usually good girls until they get a few drinks and it’s all too easy with game. Even without it kisses are so easy.

Girls nights/weekends etc are usually red flag issues for traditional based LTR’s. If you have an LTR where you’re free to go on weekends or to the parties with the boys then you can’t really complain.

But if you vetted for a traditional girl she wouldn’t put herself into these situations as these are the things you do when single.

But there’s some points to note.

Rollo’s move of “IDGAF” is in my opinion, incomplete. It presumes that the girl will see you’re high value because you don’t care and cease to go in future.

The problem is that girls nights and weekends are deeply imbedded into society now and so she feels it’s her right to experience this, and her friends are going to deeply peer pressure her into this.

There’s a high chance she’ll just capitalise on your IDGAF attitude and see it as a green light to enjoy herself. It might not even register as a green light, it’s so natural that this would be ok.

The opposite approach is bad too. If you “stop” her from going, you’re the bad guy and frame wise you’ve already lost unless you’re genuinely coming from a place of abundance.

This is why boundaries are important early on, and why you should vet for a girl that shares your values.

You wouldn’t worry about this if she was just a plate, but guys get themselves bent over an axle when their whole pussy supply and emotional investment wants to shake their ass for the guys.

How you tackle this depends on what you want. If you likely playing fast and loose then invite yourself, have a great time, be the heart of the group and have everyone loving you.

If you have traditional values and don’t like this then your best option here is probably to say you do have something planned for her and invite her to something far better, then work on subtlety establishing boundaries.

Or just be upfront, say you don’t have this in your relationships and see if she’s gonna respect or resent you.

Title	What exactly is a girls weekend and how do you handle it?
Author	tripwithweird
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Date	May 10, 2019 7:49 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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