Currently getting back into spinning plates, met a girl at a club and turn out I fucked her best friend before on tinder, she knows and is obviously ok with it.

She tells me she doesn't "hookup" with guys like that and has only been in a few LTRs, which she recently just got out of a 3 year relationship. So far I've only made out with her in my bed and when I tried to go down on her she'd pull her jeans back up 3 times..

I noticed she started going cold on me, so I started talking to some old plates so I stop investing too much energy into her, and the other day I gave her a 24 hour soft next. She's been hitting me up a lot today, but is failing on making plans with me this weekend. I have a date Thursday with an old plate, but want to try to fuck this chick this weekend.

Right now I'm not sure what the next step is, should just ghost her all weekend until I find a good night to tell her to come over, grab a drink, ice cream etc.? It's been a few dates and I'm about to lose interest if she doesn't at least go down on me next time I see her.

My buddies tell me how "bad" she is, so I want to fuck her just for the clout and ego boost. I'm hesitant to hard next because we actually get along really well. So asktrp, what's the best option to get her to fuck.

One more disclaimer, before I iniatiated the soft next I did show some beta behavior due to only talking to her and not anyone else. I can tell I lost some attraction in her, but I could care less since I'm talking to and old plate and other potential ones.