so i'm talking to this girl (18) she went on vacation to bali and is mostly staying alone (without her parents) at a family friends house, she told me that she wants to hook up with guys there, because nobody from her friends or family knows about them, i get the family part, but the friends part was strange... i asked her why does she care if her close girl friends even find out that she's hooking up with these men, and she just didn't know how to answer me

and i'm talking about close close CLOSE girl friends that she's known for years, they tell her all their sexual encounters, but the fact that she doesn't want them to know about hers is very strange to me

so my question is this, why are some girls more willing to get into sexual encounters with men that nobody they know (friends or family) knows about?