What are common introductions for cold approaching?

Unboundaries · 2019-06-07T06:31:03+00:00

The first word I say is "Hey"

Usually followed by direct eye contact (not staring her down but eye contact to show you're not scared)

Followed by a question usually, notice how they're open ended and that they aren't compliments, examples:

"Are you enjoying this bar?"

"Are you here for the bla bla bla too?"

I've used "Is your boyfriend going to be mad if he sees me talking to you?" and despite what some here might think, it does work in the right setting, maybe not in a library, but in a nightclub, it's effective to get some information because it's somewhat important to know what you're dealing with in a dark, loud, crowded room. Many times straight opened with "Hey, are you single?" and said right works a lot, you have to get fine tuned to however your approach is no matter what you say. I've used "Hey, do you have a boyfriend?" before, and a girl has answered "No" and we went on an instant date. I've said "Hey, want to go on a date?" followed by her going "hahahaha lololol what" and it working pretty good.

As I like to say, a lot of what you're saying is irrelevant it's more what you're doing. If you're being ballsy and confident you can say most things and she'll be able to feel your confident energy. Likewise if you're acting like you're afraid of her/beta you can say the best line on earth and she'll be turned off. You have to open her so that she feels like she can laugh and be comfortable with the situation and like you don't care what she responds with. Don't give her rapey vibes like you're going to stalk her if she says no because then she is totally uncomfortable and looking for the nearest exit away from you.

Think about how Brad Pitt would ask/talk to a normal girl and emulate that.

FiveStarTendieDinner · 2019-06-07T03:54:05+00:00

For fuck's sake you don't need a scripted or canned intro or cheesy pickup line. Fuck all of that formulaic PUA shit. You go in balls deep, all natural, so suck it up and go with the flow.

0io- · 2019-06-07T06:18:57+00:00

I'd comment on external things. For example, the loudspeaker announces that the flight is delayed. You then look at the hottie waiting across from you at the airport and say something like "Looks like this may be a long night".

youcancallmedada · 2019-06-07T01:56:21+00:00

I like to say “you know, you can’t smile without blinking”, wait for her to try, introduce myself, and make some comment about the environment or really anything.

MattyAnon · 2019-06-07T14:41:12+00:00

Krauser PUA

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2019-06-07T17:27:42+00:00

Your vibe matters more than anything. A few weeks ago I opened a girl by saying "Is that a romper?" she was glad I came by.

Don_Draper27 · 2019-06-07T17:35:50+00:00

Read "Rejection Proof" and "Models".

bethanyisawhore · 2019-06-07T15:06:01+00:00

Just say: "Hey, excuse me, what's your name..., oh cool, hi Bethany, I'm [name]...I was checking you out from over there and you are a cutie pie so I had to come over and say hello"

Transport127 · 2019-06-07T03:23:07+00:00

Just shake their hand ask their name and tell them you like them, they are cute and go from there like you meeting another person. Don’t do pick up lines and shit, it’s awkward.

Title	What are common introductions for cold approaching?
Author	IronPollack08
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Date	June 7, 2019 1:37 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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