Hey so I recently started dating this girl who just turned 18. I'm 18 as well, and she asked me out a week after meeting her; she's pretty damn cute so I agreed.

She's really smart (literally genius iq) and speaks like 5 different languages and is super into this boy band. It's pretty much the main thing she talks about.

That same night she asked me out I got her into my bed and I fingered her. I would've fucked but I she performance anxiety putting the condom on and her friend was in the other room so I didn't.

Her friend that introduce me to her had a camping trip for 4 days we both went on. For the first few days she was really distant because she didn't want to kiss and stuff in front of her friends parents.

They all said they don't give a fuck and even kinda called her out on it considering she was moving soon. After that we slept in the same bed for the rest of the trip and she was flirty and kissed me a lot and shit. She took me into the woods and we made out and she stopped and told me about her failed relationships and how she dated a guy that used her for sex and stuff like that.

After camp we had our first real date and we went out to eat and watch a movie, it went really well up until I went to drop her off and I met her mom. Her mom just kinda stared at her the whole time and was mad because she never told her about me.

She moved recently and she's been extremely clingy. Like everyday we've talked for at least 3 hours with facetime/texting.

After like 4 days of talking long distance we both were masturbating on camera together and shit. She said she's coming back to visit later thine month and told me all the kinky stuff she's into. She's pretty much into BDSM and rough shit like that.

I really like her but my main issue with her is she keeps bringing up this boy band literally all the time like we'll share music and she plays only this Asian band and she'll send photos of random shit and she'll say how much she wants to fuck them and stuff like that. Today she told me about how she dreamt of meeting them and she was saying how she hates feet except for this one guy in the bands feet and she sent me pics of this dudes feet and I just left her on read.

She says I miss you and her one friend pretty much showed me a text she wrote that said she's obsessed with me. She also had like zoomed up on me in group pictures and stuff like that so I know she does really like me. She says I really wanna be with you right now and stuff like that all the time even though she's only been gone for like a week. I wanna be with her too but idk it definitely does seem odd.

What do you guys think about this situation? I know you guys are pretty against long distance but she comes back every 3-5 weeks and stays for around a week so it's not a huge issue for me. It's just the constant talk of being into boy bands and how things moved so quickly that concern me a little.

**TL;DR: Met this girl and like a week later she asked me out and we dated. I nearly smashed the first day she asked me out and we went camping together and she was all over me. I met her mom on our first date and she moved a few days later. We talk about 3 hours a day over facetime and texting and we both masturbated over camera for each other. She told me her BDSM fetish and she constantly says how much she misses me. She pretty much always talks pretty much about stupid shit like this boy band she's into and different languages and shit like that. She's pretty much obsessed with me as well from what I've heard from her friend and seen from her phone. She's mad cute but idk if this relationships gonna work. We have some similarities like video games and tv shows but it seems she's got a lot of red flags as well.