I read rationale male and a few othee books but im still confused how to talk to girls.

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-06-08T03:59:44+00:00

The #1 key to talking to women is to be confident and not to overthink or be nervous. Some may need to use CBD, Phenibut, alcohol, kava, propranolol, etc for a while to overcome this.

That aside, here are some tips:

-Make observations about her and the environment.

-State upfront "I think you're pretty hot." "I think you're cute." "I think you have a nice figure." Notice I said, "I think..." as it frames it as a genuine compliment and from you to her, not like its an objective fact. Some guys think this is dumb and is giving validation but just by talking to these women you're validating them. Nothing wrong with a high value man stating he thinks a woman is attractive.

-Openers include anything situational, or default "Hey what's up" "Hey, I'm _____."

-A few fallback questions include: "How's your day going?" "Anything cool happen to you today?" "Where are you from?"

-After 30 seconds to 2 minutes of chatting, say "hey I gotta run but lets continue this over drinks sometime. What's your number?"

-Feel free to neg her a bit if she is nervous or awkward. "Damn, you seem a little nervous. Its okay."

-Sometimes I'll tease "So you get all kinds of sexy guys approaching you?" or even "You get a lot of random creepy guys talking to you?" but I'm thinking the latter might not be that good but it can still be pulled off.

-When she replies, build the conversation on what she gives you. Ie- "Where you from?" ... "I'm from Florida originally." ... Now you can talk about anything relating to Florida or even ask where since Florida.

-It's not about what you say, its more about how you say it.

-Don't overthink it.

-Don't worry about rejection. Most of the time you get rejected. The best salesman get rejected most of the time. The best players and macks get rejected most of the time. It's part of the game and its all a numbers game. The guys with tight game will just have a higher close rate. When you approach a lot of women you gain abundance as you'll see your approach get SHUT DOWN by one chick who thinks you're a total creep and ignores you then the next chick will be receptive and flirting back with you and you end up fucking her after meeting up. Next! is a word you need get familiar with. On to the next chick!

-Do NOT hesitate when approaching. You'll talk yourself out of it.

-Talk to a lot of women. It is the best way to get an abundance mindset.

Approach at least 10 women a week. If you like, have a couple drinks then hit the pavement or a park and get to work. Eventually it actually gets fun!

EDIT: for flirting, what I would recommend is compliments and observations about her appearance. Her dress/skirt, her hair, her smell, her eyelashes, her eyebrows, her figure, her skin, etc. Have good eye contact and do some kino as well. Start light by touching her arm or elbow and move up to arm on thigh or around waist, play with her hair then you can go to kissing, then up the ladder eventually till it gets sexual. IF she resists take a step back and give it some time and try once or twice more. If she still isn't feeling it just stop and game new women.

AdmiralFiz · 2019-06-08T02:02:00+00:00

The more attractive you are the less your hobbies really matter. An attractive introvert is mysterious, an obese introvert is a creep.

Keep lifting, work on your fashion, buy a cologne, and im sure you can pick up girls at a coffee shop since you don't do clubs. Gaming is more than just picking up girls at a club it's about picking them up anywhere.

I talk to girls about the hours I put into Old School Runescape, literally no hobby is too introverted if you're attractive and confident enough to make it cool

Edit: forgot to mention originally but very sorry to hear about your brother.

barn3r · 2019-06-08T02:10:01+00:00

No. If there aren’t women who are into your hobbies then explore new hobbies you may enjoy. However, I’m sure there are some girls out there who like your hobbies too. I’m a bit of an introvert myself primarily in large groups of people. But one on one, I’m fairly outgoing or can carry a good conversation with banter.

Idk what you’re into, but shit just go to your local DnD club gathering or whatever you’re into and there will be girls there most likely. Nerdy girls but girls nonetheless. It’s literally as easy as walking up to them “Hi, I’m fagbag! This is my first time here/I’ve recently started coming here.” “Hi, I’m thotiana! Oh cool.” “Have you heard of the double dick red dragon card? Yeah I have one. Check it out!” “Wow that’s awesome!” “Right! Let’s go play DnD” “ok!”

barn3r · 2019-06-08T02:43:02+00:00

Tinder, grocery store, books-a-million, anywhere. Need to kill your approach anxiety.

SpicyYeetJuice · 2019-06-08T03:11:16+00:00

I read your comments and I think you have AA just because you’ve been on this sub for 4 years and rsd even longer face it homie you know what to say at a coffee shop. You know it’s not about what you say it’s how you say it. Sorry about your brother I can’t imagine stay strong bro.

barn3r · 2019-06-08T02:28:05+00:00

Is there a trail you like the most? Offer a girl to go on with you. It’s really that simple.

0io- · 2019-06-08T05:22:26+00:00

Just have to lose the weight and use game when it's appropriate.

You're 20 so you don't even need steroids. Just get back in shape as fast as you can.

You could find some outdoorsy girl who loves hiking and that sort of thing. It's going to take you a year to lose the weight so in the mean time you can find girls who like to go on hikes. I wouldn't run straight pick-up if I were in your situation.

Also, you didn't say how you got fat, but if you're drinking heavily cut that shit out right now. That only gets worse as you get older.

JxRomeo · 2019-06-08T11:29:48+00:00

I understand you but it depends how much you want a women? Do you have passion about women and sex? If you dont have so much interest about women just do other things. Never search for LTR. Just go for fun.

I think only option for you daygame but it takes lots of time.

BlackVale · 2019-06-08T17:24:14+00:00

Here’s my two cents. You need to get off of this sub, stop listening to rsd, and basically any other sub that relates to gaming women. One or two things happen: you read so much till you satisfy yourself goal and mentally wise and when you do, there’s no need to approach. Two you can add more undue pressure to yourself trying to apply what will work for someone else and may not work for you.

Regardless of what most people will say here dating is a game of luck first and then your game. A woman has to decide to open up to you first before the game can start. There are a million and one reasons why she will not and only a few will relate to you and even then they may not even be 25% accurate so you might as well just ignore them altogether.

What’s more important is that you approach women. It doesn’t have to be successful. Hell lower the bar for yourself your just starting. Don’t start at level 99 start at level 1. A lot of advice for gaming women only apply when you have experience anyway. Now you just need to get some type of experience. Start by saying you have to say hi to a girl once a week. Just start somewhere.

Most importantly don’t be hard on yourself. The start of this journey is the hardest part. After you get over that hump it’s all downhill from there as long as you remember that AWALT and never get married.

As for losing weight that depends from person to person. Some people just need to lift others need to diet. I recommend either keto or IF. Both have helped me in the past.

boy_named_su · 2019-06-08T20:05:20+00:00

you'll like what Roosh has to say. He's against the dancing monkey school of thought. Pretty genuine actually

Read his book Game

Title	I read rationale male and a few othee books but im still confused how to talk to girls.
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