Hi Guys,

I am so bad @ Tinder, texting girls. I ruin many good things with my shit texting and find a disconnect between "myself" and "texting as myself." A few posts ago you guys let me know that I was being too alpha-tryhard and too mean/strict to a girl, and I'm getting that feeling again with this check.

https://imgur.com/a/lNEtxfI

I know she's showing attraction and I have an opportunity here, BUT conventional wisdom may suggest that I should be the one making the plans, telling her what to do, making the decisions, etc. She just told me to teach her martial arts. If I say sure, let's meet at the park some time... them I'm in her frame.

How would you guys agree to this meetup, but reframe it as yours?