I have been plating a previously virgin BPD for a few months now. She is absolutely submissive, loyal (I’m the one), creative, interesting, and shares my political beliefs and values. I enjoy spending time with her and am considering making her a main plate/exclusive. I am still in college, so if I’m going to try the LTR thing now may be a good time.

But will it fuck me up?

I have only recently started reading on BPD, but it’s been all I’ve been reading since. She literally defines it. Dad left at a young age, behavior is BPD defined. Some people post bullet points, she qualifies for all of them (except lying, I haven’t caught that).

For some reason, I think I can train it out of her. She has a very submissive personality, I have a very masculine and dominant personality and frame. I have ghosted her for posting snap stories clearly looking to make me jealous, and only taken her back when she pleads and begs.

I feel like if I become not just a rock, but a fucking bolder, I’ll have a girl I value very highly. Is it possible to have a good relationship with a BPD? Or am I guaranteed to get fucked.