FWB, orbiters and dread game

O--- · 2019-07-11T15:47:41+00:00

Shit test / power play?

Yes.

I have orbiters of my own I don't mention.

Mention it. Let her know that you enough options.

TheGoldenLeprechaun · 2019-07-11T16:48:37+00:00

Here's the thing. You're here, saying you don't give a fuck while you write a post asking for help on the very subject. You do give a fuck, you are jealous. And that's ok. For now. If you like games play games. Mention your orbiters and all that. The other option is that you tell the truth. Ask her why she's trying to make you jealous, tell her you don't like that behavior and that she can get replaced. There are playful ways you can say that without coming off total butthurt. If she respects or values your word you'll see immediate change.

EDIT: Just read the damn thing. It's a FWB. If you want the girl promote her. If not, no fucks given.

Blackhawk2479 · 2019-07-11T18:05:28+00:00

You make it stop by making it obvious you don’t give a shit and she’ll (eventually) give up.

Asking her to stop or being overt about your own orbiters is going to have the opposite effect.

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-07-11T20:54:38+00:00

when you truly dont care she'll stop mentioning it

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-07-11T18:08:12+00:00

Oh boy. Strap yourselves in, this is going to be a bumpy ride.

Hopefully you know by now that we don't fuck around and don't pull any punches here.

Time for some chemotherapy.

Have an FWB. Only recently started and she's saying she doesn't want to bang anyone else atm

...... Today, and this particular hour.

Whenever a woman makes a personal declaration like this: I want to do X, I don't want to do Y, I'm not that kind of girl, it only means she feels that way right now. Odds are good she'll change her mind in the near future.

Maybe she won't, but she very easily could.

and that I make her really happy.

..... right now.

Constant mention of orbiter from her work.

Doesn't matter what he is, or whether or not she bangs him.

She's just a plate, she's not your LTR.

She's not yours. It's just your turn.

It's just your turn today.

I've seen the dude, he is a genuine soft cocked man .

Oh boy. You lost frame here in a big way with her and showed her that you give several shits about other dudes she might be bonking. This is why she keeps bringing it up.

She knows that you're close to crumbling mentally, which is why you're here asking a question which if you were more familiar with TRP you should already know the answers to.

I wasn't aware that your plate was some kind of race or competitive sport.

Assume that she's grinding on other dudes erections on the days she's not with you. If you give a fuck that she's doing this, you lose.

and she even laughs about him to me when we are together (classic).

She laughs about you to other dudes when you're not around and talks shit about your insecurities to other dudes. You're not a special snowflake in this regard.

Do you give a fuck that she talks shit about you?

How do I put an end to these jealousy attempts and make my life easier?

You can't, ever.

You can only recognize that it's just your turn, today, right now, and it will be someone else's turn tomorrow. She's just an amusing toy. Stop trying to jealously guard all your toys so other kindergartners on the playground can't have them.

Just laugh and ask if she thinks he'd be down to get spit-roasted by both of you, her with the strap on.

I don't want to come across as a pussy by telling her to stop talking about him, but I don't honestly give a fuck what he said about XXXXX during lunch.

Then get up and go and do something else more worthy of your time and consideration.

She is a good girl in every other respect,

AWALT. All women are like this.

Not jealous at all,

You totally are and she knows it, which is the reason you're here asking a question that has been asked thousands of times before.

TL;DR- Your frame needs some serious work. You have early stage oneitisvand you need two more plates besides her. Preferably better looking than her.

Title	FWB, orbiters and dread game
Author	flabbyfuck
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	July 11, 2019 3:10 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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