Ltring a reformed party girl, or forever tainted?

HurricaneHugues · 2019-07-11T15:35:03+00:00

No such thing as a reformed party girl

itiswr1tten · 2019-07-11T15:43:12+00:00

Don't try to outsource decision making. If she's doing what you want her to do keep, if she does something demotion worthy demote permanently to fwb or plate.

The spergs and noobs with no flair and no frame always show up with their ego defense N count hysteria. Personally, I won't promote any girl to LTR who didn't have at least a brief slutty phase.

My reasoning is simple - any girl sufficiently hot to hoe a bit needs to have tried it out. The ones that conclude hoeing is retarded and unfulfilling make much better LTRs.

Psychological_Radish · 2019-07-11T15:47:48+00:00

There's a lot of very wrongheaded Blue Pill thinking and other silliness going on in this brief post. Let's walk through this.

I read once here that even if they're high ncount, if they make you happy what's the problem?

Who the hell said that stupid shite?

The actual advice that I (and others) have given is that n-count is an unreliable indicator of LTR material. First, it has to be taken in context. Let's say your GF took ten dicks by 22. That's excessive. The same number by 30, however, would be pretty modest. Of course that exception does not apply in your case.

N-count only matters insofar as Alpha count is concerned. A girl can take twenty dicks, but if they all turn out to be boring Betas at the end and you're the one Alpha, then you might be okay. On the other hand, maybe she has an n-count of one, and that one guy happens to be the most badass Alpha motherfucker around. You're screwed in that instance. The point is that you have to out-Alpha every guy that came before you. That becomes less likely the higher the body count stacks. There is plenty of scientific evidence that high body count is a predictor of future relationship dissolution. Some people just aren't genetically predisposed to loyalty, either.

In your case, it took four years for her to commit. Why do you think that was? My guess is that you simply didn't make a big enough Alpha impression on her in college. That should tell you something.

I know she's putting on the good girl facade for me, but as long as she keeps it up is there a problem?

Hello McFly, anybody home? Think McFly, think. You just said it yourself. It's a facade. All well and good until it comes crumbling down, as it inevitably will.

Is she permanently tainted because of her past regardless of future behavior?

The past doesn't vanish like a fart in the wind just because you don't like the smell.

mickJagermeisterr · 2019-07-11T16:00:53+00:00

Enjoy it while it lasts, don't take it seriously and then end it when the time comes (it will)

CasualtyOfHedonism · 2019-07-12T07:11:11+00:00

Statistically speaking, the higher her count, the less likely it is to work. You should ask her about every detail of when she fucked other dudes and see if you can stay with her after that. If she won’t answer at all or gives you some “it was only a few times” bull shit, it’s probably really bad.

__TheDon__ · 2019-07-11T17:06:54+00:00

Do you think she’s going to keep that good girl attitude forever? Once a hoe always a hoe my friend. Go get yourself a new one in my opinion

Protocol_Apollo · 2019-07-11T18:44:32+00:00

Just be careful of girls “reforming”.

Typically, it’s not really them reforming but rather them putting an indefinite break on it just to seem more attractive to you

This would especially be the case if she knows you don’t like party girls and she stopped whilst she was with you

Essentially, girls don’t really reform, they are just trying to manipulate you into thinking they are good/worthy.

Her party experiences don’t just vanish as if thanos snapped

RStonePT · 2019-07-11T19:05:16+00:00

If she doesn't ditch her party lifestyle because she knows you wouldn't like it then you have your answer

zboo1h · 2019-07-11T19:36:46+00:00

"as long as she keeps it up is there a problem?" No.

Will she keep it up? Also No.

Westerncaesar · 2019-07-11T15:27:47+00:00

No there's no problem as long as she treats you well. Just remember it's only your turn and when she feels the need to return to that life (and she will) you must let her. But other then that you do whatever you like.

TheGoldenLeprechaun · 2019-07-11T16:53:12+00:00

Guys out here mentioning double digits. If she's in double digits she's not marriage material. End of story. The ffffuck we even talkin about here? Either I'm the only one meeting decent women or ya'll been dumpster diving. This is madness.

Title	Ltring a reformed party girl, or forever tainted?
Author	Whatusernamewilliput
Upvotes	4
Comments	41
Date	July 11, 2019 3:16 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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