I have been seeing this girl the past few months that is fantastic, but a few times she has made comments about wanting to stop, saying she loses control around me (blowjobs while driving or even when her parents are in the next room).

I understand I can go plate someone else, but I feel a big part of why she's having second doubts is because in her words she doesn't like how much she loses control around me so I feel this is a way of her feeling like she's not. I know I can get another plate if this doesn't work out, but I enjoy her a lot, personality wise and sexually, and would rather figure out this hurdle instead of giving her up. I'm not sure if this is a form of a shit test to address against my frame. Any help would be appreciated.