How I ended up on TRP

redblue25 · 2014-11-10T16:11:53+00:00

we are men sharing our limited info and experiences, glad we can all help each other. But yes as /u/MasterBaiterX it seems your experience has deeply affected you, Try looking for professional help. For everything else There is great info here.

mr_wilz · 2014-11-10T16:42:50+00:00

It's not a sub to get in girls pants, neither are there any "tricks" involved. This is a sub related to the mind of a man, and the mind of a woman. If you are aware what a woman expects from you, and you are aware of what you need from your woman, you will have a great relationship.

Forget all the bad words people talk about this sub, there are a few words that may seem a little harsh and people fixate on that, however the reality is very different. You can easily see it by how people get angry, really angry at "TRP'ers". While here there is no anger. Here there is clarity and rational thinking.

Also fuck that guy.

MasterBaiterX · 2014-11-10T15:39:00+00:00

Dude, that's FUCKED. I'm glad the sub is of help to you but you should probably see a professional man. It couldn't hurt even if you're feeling better than before.

ss_camaro · 2014-11-10T17:26:38+00:00

The dirty secret behind all the politically correct lies is that a massive amount of men have been seriously fucked up 'by any means necessary' [including prison].

It's not an accident. It is simply 'progressive' social policy.

You sound like you are on the right path. Nothing can stop you, from being whole again.

IllimitableMan · 2014-11-10T18:36:53+00:00

having trust issues with gay guys

Shit dude I don't really trust 'em and not because I've been through anything like you have but because poor men such as yourself have been subjected to such things by people from that community.

See, they hide behind this "egalitarian fabulousness" and a lot of them are harmless, and those guys are great guys, but make no mistake, there are sick men in the gay community who hide behind it's "we're oppressed" image to do things like this. And you can't tell the difference between a predator and a harmless gay, the predators behave like the harmless gays with their upward inflexion and sense of fashion and do their best to fit in, but give them the opportunity and they will go fucking dark on your ass (no pun intended.) They will groom men, violate men, rape men, get teenage boys who are getting mixed signals from a culture that hates masculinity and play on their uncertainty to manipulate them into indulging homosexual acts.

And straight men have no recourse in this bullshit PC culture of ours. There is no justice. He can play his gay card, what card do you have? You're straight. What would you have to do to get justice? Pretend to be gay BUT raped? Maybe someone will take you seriously then? If you cry rape they'll play their gay card and say you're making shit up because you're a homophobe and spin the whole thing around. What then? Society will eat that shit up because "gays are harmless and fabulous." WRONG. Not all of them are. A lot of gays have a fetish for turning/fucking straight men too, the manlier, the better. They like the idea of overpowering a dominant straight man and fucking him in the ass. I've heard as much from gay men myself. It's the ultimate gay fantasy. When you hear shit like that, as a straight man, you have good reason to want to avoid that group of people. Personally I keep gay men at an arms length distance, there are too many predators within their ranks and I'm too busy of a guy to weed out the ones who would make good friends with the ones who want to colonise my asshole in some perverted rape dungeon, fuck that noise and hassle.

Welcome to TRP dude.

Masonjarteadrinker2 · 2014-11-10T16:47:43+00:00

That's fucked up bro, glad to hear that TRP is helping you out. Let us know if you need some advice.

thenarrrowpath · 2014-11-10T17:02:02+00:00

I think its so funny how most of us are draw to this site by someone telling us to not come here because its so bad. Its like banning a book, it only makes people more curious.

CDBaller · 2014-11-10T16:44:53+00:00

Yeah, that's fucked up man. Remember who your friends are and stick with them. and to reiterate what /u/MasterBaiterX said, get some professional help. Molestation is a serious issue and even if you feel better, you should still talk to a counselor, pastor or any other sort of professional adviser about that.

My_Dog_Jax · 2014-11-10T17:01:13+00:00

Welcome to the sub!

I do have to say, the initial post you make is quite scary. Though you never really come out and say if it was consensual. Is it something you just regret now? Were you raped? How are you for the experience now, do you know where your sexual preferences are?

These are some questions to consider

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forgeror · 2014-11-10T20:31:24+00:00

any dignity left in themselves

Bitch please! This is where men who have lost their dignity reclaim it back

Ralt · 2014-11-10T20:33:29+00:00

I would suggest not telling this female friend about what you've found here. You will only be setting yourself up to be attacked.

That said, welcome. I was abused when I was 6 years old and so it's different but believe me I know your pain and struggles. TRP has revolutionized me and I'm much better off. I went through rehab and got a lot of personal help but when I would tell my therapists I felt I had even more issues regarding sexuality/women/masculinity they didn't understand what I was really talking about.

TRP gets it though man, society in general finally makes sense and I see my part it in. I'm starting to not see other men as threats as well as seeing women as women, not some BP caricature of them. The social theory here is strong, and it will make you strong as well.

RedPillSafe · 2014-11-10T22:02:12+00:00

I worked in San Francisco during the dot.coms and was constantly being "offered" sexual relations with men in the workplace. One guy had just got an HIV test and was negative and was hoping to celebrate by showing me his idea of a good time. Too many examples to list. (long ago now)

During the daytime and at work you never had to worry.

Generally "the gays" want consent in that you kind of have to have let the situation flow as the "man" directed you to do. You played the innocent virgin. (big mistake, but you are alive)

All you can do is be aware of situations as they form. People tend to give off loud and obvious clues of where they want things to go. If you feel another man trying to mentally "push you down" then you are dealing with a "Butch" style homosexual.

Sometimes it's hard to tell a Beta trying to compete with you (Alphas create Wolfpacks, Betas seek Conflict) and an actual homosexual.

And I've also noticed that White Knights seem to have gender identity issues too so I think in many cases these deeply beta manginas aren't themselves sure if they are homosexual or not. Lot's of gender imagination these days.

Alpha men... the type you would find through a common interest in Red Pill... would not want to fuck you. It's a contradiction because Red Pill supports masculinity while the Matrix seeks to destroy masculinity.

The exception is the Dark Triads who will fuck and destroy anything because they are twisted that way. So make sure a male has "normal" mental patterns. If they guy seems out of control and lacking any empathy just get away from him.

You need to learn to recognize "the gays".

Some "gaydar" will help.

"Femmes" - Very obvious effeminate mannerisms.

"Butch" - Very hard to see because they seem like macho men. The trick is to focus on how they interact with you. If you feel that pressure where they are trying to make you feel uncomfortable then you know he's attempting to seduce you. Once you know the "vibe" you can sense them coming.

A straight Alpha male will tend to make you feel at ease, but the Butch will make you feel pressured. You can actually feel their sexual desire for you if you are at all intuitive.

ColdEiric · 2014-11-10T20:59:15+00:00

Don't forget to tell her how vile and disgusting and horrible we are. Convince her that you agree with her, so she will tell other men about us. You know, some other male friends of hers probably also could do with some knowledge.

Welcome home, brother.

asd1100 · 2014-11-10T21:56:31+00:00

I don't want to dissect your mind here.

But trauma has very little to do with the actual event. Understand that, deconstruct the trauma and you'll find that the event has almost no power over you. You like being a victim, that sunk into your indentity and you can't bridge the dissonance between your sexual identity and the trauma.

MachiavellianRed · 2014-11-10T22:12:10+00:00

Sorry dude but I've had to remove your topic the thread is a clusterfuck and derailing the objective of the sub. Can't allow it.

iSpccn · 2014-11-10T22:51:13+00:00

What was the context of this post? I come in here and it's nuked.

AlcohoIicSemenThrowe · 2014-11-10T23:25:06+00:00

Is there a place where I can view deleted posts? Reddit's censoring is really annoying me.

Real_Patriot · 2014-11-10T16:50:45+00:00

In all honesty, you sound like one of those women (I know you're a guy) that claim rape, after the fact (when there wasn't).

You were drunk, drunk sex isn't rape. You wanted to explore your sexuality and you got fucked; you got what you wanted.

Be a man and get over it.

Title	How I ended up on TRP
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Upvotes	100
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Date	November 10, 2014 3:25 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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