I've read "bratty little sister" works well to frame your mind (and consequently, your actions) the right way. Well, at least until sexy time

I notice for girls I naturally click with, even as a beta+, I do treat them like they're slightly annoying. And like I have some hard to pin down sway over them. Yet at the same time it's all in good fun.

I think I need to work on my DGAF side more though so I plan on changing this a bit to imagine the girl as being spoiled or retarded. I mean even moreso than what is normal for a girl.

What characteristics do you assign women in your frame? Do you have a sort of theme that brings it all together and makes it easy to visualize and use?