Should you always be straight forward about what your intentions are?

CainPrice · 2019-07-23T13:57:46+00:00

Never be straightforward. But don't lie either. Being direct about casual intentions is essentially calling a girl a slut and asking her to admit it.

Don't pretend you want to marry a girl just to get laid. But when a girl asks what you're looking for, it's okay to say that you're open to seeing what happens. That's understood code for probably casual, but without requiring the girl to directly agree that she's a down for casual girl.

And it's not a lie. You never know if the next girl might actually impress you enough to date. You're open to the possibility. You just recognize that it's not a very likely one. You're also open to the other possibility. If the emotional connection doesn't happen but you guys are attracted to each other and end up doing the casual thing, you don't judge that either. Sometimes, that's what you or she needs most.

FereallyRed · 2019-07-23T20:23:57+00:00

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2019-07-23T13:58:13+00:00

You are already too late for that. You failed to make her feel and she's trying to find comfort and see whether you'd be a good Beta bux.

Make her feel before, keep the sexual atmosphere going. This is why many men here suggest only logistisc by text, let her wait and see, have her be intrigued.

embracingtheredpill · 2019-07-23T19:24:40+00:00

No, but it's better than never showing intent.

Jabbermouth · 2019-07-24T19:31:48+00:00

Law #3: Conceal Your Intentions

Never be straightforward with women. It removes the mystery. Women love guys that are a mystery.

48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene. Check it out

Title	Should you always be straight forward about what your intentions are?
Author	ElijahBurningWoods
Upvotes	9
Comments	13
Date	July 23, 2019 1:50 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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