I met this friend much later in life. Met him thru my last job. We’re good friends. But I haven’t met his girl yet. And I don’t like that he didn’t ask if it’s cool. He just kinda invited her along.

The trip is with some of my closest friends and it’s in Sept.

I don’t wanna be a dick and be like “this is supposed be a guys trip.” But at the same time I feel like he should have checked if it’s cool.

She hasn’t confirmed so she could also just end up not being able to come in which case I look like even more of a dick.

Also it’s one more person to split with. But I feel like it’s kind of a dick move on his part.

How do I handle this?