Is there anyone living into a loving, happy and fulfilling LTR?

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2019-07-15T13:15:17+00:00

There is no such thing as a LTR, only a man with one plate.

On what you posted:

Well they dont love the way we do, you should already know that.

And happiness comes from within. A woman is a positive modifier on your experience or shes jettisoned.

Fulfillment dosent come from a relationship, it comes from moving your mission or a goal forward.

You have it all wrong.

Some men in MRP have a version of what some of you might find acceptable but figuring out what you want in this life and what's acceptable is half the battle.

You cant make a son without a woman.

If you want a son, you need one.

Kids arnt for everyone.

silent_dominant · 2019-07-15T09:53:28+00:00

Those who do certainly don't come here.

But honestly I believe the best you can hope for is for it to be enough. At some point you might grow tired of gaming and plating new girls again and again and you just wanna come home and relax

MattyAnon · 2019-07-15T17:36:52+00:00

Fulfilling yes......

happy: it's my job to be happy, nothing to do with a LTR

loving: I think you're misunderstanding how relationships work and what they need and what they offer

feedthecatcomics · 2019-07-15T07:24:04+00:00

If you actually read through the side bar it will answer your questions... I won't reveal Rollo's secret though. That's for you to discover

CT-Emperor · 2019-07-15T14:50:36+00:00

Yes of course. Ask me some questions

oooKenshiooo · 2019-07-15T17:01:15+00:00

I have plated for two years up to the point where it got boring.

I am trying to slowly engineer my current LTR into a unicorn, but I am well aware this is a project with low chance for success.

For now I have had great results though.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2019-07-15T10:01:48+00:00

No.. even in LTR you will always have to be navigate through a balance TRP principles with beta traits, apply dread, apply comfort, DGAF, abundance and everything else... LTR's require a lot of work and evaluation and re-application of the principles you thought you understood. Whether that's worth it for you, is a personal decision to make.

Scott555 · 2019-07-15T15:30:58+00:00

You might rephrase your question. Any of these criteria exists on a scale. 100% of people can respond "yes" or "no" to this in perfect honesty purely based on perspective.

AdeHMar · 2019-07-15T15:31:23+00:00

Yes.

Notagain6352 · 2019-07-15T06:42:44+00:00

No, LTRs are exhausting if you are redpilled. AND the attraction has a time bomb on it

CainPrice · 2019-07-15T14:58:12+00:00

Your question depends on a lot of word definitions.

What does "loving" mean? Do I care about my girlfriend's happiness and does she care about mine? Sure. But within reason. We're not co-dependent and obsessed with each other, and two seconds after I stop getting what I want from the relationship, I'll drop her. She'll do the same to me. "Love" isn't magic. It's a choice. It's conditional. You choose to take responsibility for a small portion of another person's feelings, but as a grown-up. This is grown-up, adult love. She's not my mommy. I'm not her daddy. Our parents raised us well enough that we no longer need parents. We're not looking for unconditional parental love in our romantic partners.

What does "happy" mean? We have lots of sex and treat each other well. We're good to each other in and out of the bedroom and we enjoy each other's company. Plus, we both have separate lives from each other that we enjoy a lot. I guess that's happy.

What does "fulfilling" mean? I'm getting pretty much all of the sex I can handle from one woman who's really good to me outside of the bedroom, too. I don't need another woman right now, so I guess I'm fulfilled. But I've been with enough women and enough relationships to know that this is not a permanent thing. Eventually, things change, and when I'm not getting what I need, or when she's not, one of us is going to end things and move on. I think the complete absence of these unrealistic expectations - no trying to force my girlfriend into this narrow box of perfect-wife expectations - makes our relationship a million times better. She has the space to be who she is, without judgment, instead of constantly feeling like she has to hide things and pretend things and perform to meet some stressful set of expectations I have for her.

Title	Is there anyone living into a loving, happy and fulfilling LTR?
Author	Killertacco
Upvotes	4
Comments	29
Date	July 15, 2019 6:28 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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