I met a girl off an online dating app. Before we met i could tell there was chemistry. We spoke on the phone for a couple hours at a time We even had phone sex before we met.

So the day comes where we meet in person and we had a great date. It went really well. At the end of the night i took her back to my place and started a fire pit. We almost had sex, but she thought itd be better to wait until another night. She mentioned to me that she didn't want to go on the dating app anymore and she made herself invisible on the app which i was happy about.

The next day she went out with her friends and her friends convinced her that she should go to my place that night and she did and things got very intimate. I thought it was great and we went at it for a good hour and a half.

The next day i look on the app and she wasn't invisible on the app anymore and she had added a new picture. Now i realize we weren't in a serious relationship yet and she has her right to have the app, but after what she told me i was confused. I asked her about it and she didn't like that i brought it up. After that things got weird. She got awkward when i mentioned sex in person, but still had phone sex with me a day later.

We went out for another date a couple days later. Had a really nice dinner and went mini golfing. She was giving me these pecks on the lips instead of a real kiss. Idk it was just weird, but we still had fun. We split ways after mini golf because she said she was tired and i was also. I go home, go to bed and i wake up a few hours later to see that she had gone out drinking until like 3am with her friends afterwards. That hurt. I texted her and she said she'd call me when she got home. When she called i didn't know what to say.

I was kinda hurt and annoyed that she went out drinking like that after a nice date (she drank every single night since i had started speaking to her, so she may have had a drinking problem). To me, it was over. I told her on the phone i didn't think i would make her happy and lone be told the conversation didn't go well. And now we're done for good. This all happened within a week of knowing this girl and idk what i could've done differently or if it just wasnt meant to be, but I'm upset about it. If you read this far, thanks for reading.