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Question about relationships.

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November 15, 2014
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Title Question about relationships.
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Upvotes 0
Comments 9
Date November 15, 2014 5:37 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2me5ty/question_about_relationships/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/question-about-relationships.24917
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[–]1whatsazipper1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd really love to swallow the pill. Help me out bros.

No, it's not right for you.

[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What part of "read sidebar" did you not read?

[–]newlifeasredpill0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hard to say what you mean exactly as you wrote very little but it SOUNDS like you are saying:

I want women to adore me but I don't want to do any of the work or feel any of the pain that is required.

[–]alreadyredschool0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

You don't understand dominance at all. If it is overt it is a turnoff. If it plays in the background it is attractive. Your woman unconsciously knows that you will take care of anything and never give in to the pressure. How does she know this? Through shit tests, which don't shift you at all. She can't break you, she knows that nothing can break you, you are her immovable rock that she can lean on in this crazy world where her emotions shake her around like a good salsa dancer. You will understand it when you realize how happy you make your woman. Most women are very insecure, so they look for a man that is very self confident. When you are dominant she can drop her guard, she can be herself, she will love you for how you make her feel when you are dominant.

To be honest, saying "Be dominant" is as bad as saying "Be a man" or "Don't touch the hot plate", it is worthless without telling you why or how.

A quick solution is to do as you please. Consider her wishes and your wishes and make the best decision possible and stick to it. Btw women are very indecisive, when she is dancing between several options she wants you to decide for her. And she often wants you to make her feel good about a decision that's selfish. But let her realize that bad decisions have negative consequences, don't comfort her and validate her bullshit. Only validate her good shit. Only compliment her when she does something nice.

[–]HAMMURABl0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This whole dominance thing seems a little oppressive to me.

hold on! next thing you might say is that trp thinks men and women are not the same!

[–]QuatYouSay 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree wholeheartedly with TRP's stance on the difference between the genders, but I just don't get this particular facet of their beliefs. If they seriously are just being oppressive to women then I don't want to swallow the pill, but if theres more to it I'd love to find out.

[–]trpfieldreport0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The sidebar "Required Theory Reading" is for you.

Read the articles "Women In Love" and "Men In Love".

It will explain a lot. Nobody here wants to regurgitate what has already been said incredibly well.

Read the sidebar material.

[–]2IVIaskerade0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd really love to swallow the pill. Help me out bros.

If you really wanted to, you'd shut up and read the sidebar.

[–][deleted] -1 points-1 points-1 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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