Plate in city I'm visiting says she's talking to somebody right now, what's the best response?

lietruth · 2019-09-10T02:12:06+00:00

"No worries, take care."

Then move on. Plates spin, then they break.. don't be a bumbling beta. Abundance mentality. Be cool and fade away.

shadowfuse8 · 2019-09-10T02:15:57+00:00

Posting here because it won’t let me post anywhere else. I’d appreciate some advice.

I matched with a pretty good looking girl on tinder a couple months back. We had good flirtatious conversation and it soon died out. I’d message her from time to time and after some work got her to come to dinner w me.

Throughout the night we’re talking about different shit and we eventually got to the topic of sex and dates. She began talking about stories of guys stalking her, sending packages to her house, cat-calls all day, even guys sending her their resume. She even said “I sometimes wish I look normal” (like wtf!). I told her to chilllllllllll you’re not that hot and she playfully hits me on the arm.

Anyways. I keep my cool the entire night and don’t put her on a pedestal like every other guy does. We end up going to a view on a mountain and she’s purposely trying to avoid me physically but in an unnecessary way—like she wasn’t scared of mine but it seemed like she’s gotten with too many guys on the first date way too many times. I shot my shot and she’s like “yeah I dont hook up on the first date anymore”. we then get into the conversation about sex again and she’s talking about how much she loves it but fakes orgasms cause guys don’t know how to give it to her properly according to her. I end up taking her home and when I dropped her off she said she had fun and she’ll text me. I told her I’m not much of a texter I’m more of a caller and she was really receptive towards that. I say this because I genuinely suck at texting and over the phone cuts out a lot of the bullshit.

Some facts about her: She’s 18 She has claimed to fuck 19 guys She loves talking—like non stop. Guys everywhere are on her tip. I took her out and people couldn’t keep their eyes off her.

Long story short...How would you guys handle this?

doublecup__ · 2019-09-10T02:54:50+00:00

"all good and thanks"

don't hit her up anymore. assume she'll never reach out either. find more women.

htbf · 2019-09-10T13:50:03+00:00

"oh, I'm curious! Tell me more"

And when she loosens her defenses and finds herself saying things to you she shouldn't have and noticing how you are not insecure and are still attractive, she will fuck you.

Title	Plate in city I'm visiting says she's talking to somebody right now, what's the best response?
Author	Specialcz3
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	September 10, 2019 2:04 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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