Most of my days are filled with school, music, work, and going to the gym. 4 months ago I finished a 7 year relationship and have been feeling down with no women by my side. I love women and wish to have them, but I'm tired of chasing. I am tired of walking around trying to find someone to talk to, I am tired of going through all this bullshit for a lay, I would rather work on myself and not get laid; yet, my body tells me the opposite and puts me through a lot of wasted time since I don't feel accomplished without beautiful women. I try and game where I go, but being in a small town in the middle of nowhere, rarely do I find anyone and end up feeling tired as fuck at the end of the day just trying to get my dick wet. I don't mind approaching, but trying to find someone and aggressively scouting puts my energy down and just kills my vibe, I would rather just chill and do my thing but this urge just keeps going and FOMO kicks in and the hamster goes overdrive to go waste an hour or two trying to pick up chicks when I would rather do music or workout. How can I break out of this cycle?

EXTRA INFO: I am often busy with hw and music that I spend most of my days inside the house working on my goals, which by itself is admirable, but leaves me alone most weekends and I just lay waiting til its over to go back to school for a shot at women, etc.; 22 btw